Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions

Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric.

From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weekend long. Add in twerking and lap dance classes, packed dance floors, and plenty of playful, sexy moments, and you’ve got a party that truly delivered on every level.

Dan and Lacy give you all the behind-the-scenes insight into what it’s like hosting one of the newest and most high-energy events in the lifestyle space. They share their favorite moments, the vibe of the crowd, and how Electric Pleasures is carving out its own lane by blending music festival energy with lifestyle freedom.

Whether you were there, missed it, or are thinking about attending a future event, this episode gives you a front-row seat to one of the most exciting new parties in the alternative lifestyle scene.

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SPEAKER_04 0:00

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SPEAKER_01 0:22

Welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast, a podcast by swingers for swingers, where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle. Come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe, interview the experts, learn and grow together. Join the nation. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast. We are your hosts, Northern Guy and Southern Girl. And we are back with another full episode of the Swing Nation Podcast. On this week's episode, we're here to recap the uh electric pleasures event.

SPEAKER_04 1:06

Yeah, so it was just this past weekend, so it's Wednesday, so we're recording this today before it comes out. So this is like fresh. Like we just got home late, late Sunday night. So we were in Atlanta, Georgia. It was a really good time.

SPEAKER_01 1:18

Yeah, so this is our second. So if if you're you know, maybe this is the first episode you've listened to. If you're not following us, uh, we launched a new hotel takeover brand uh that's called Electric Pleasures, and the idea of it is it's kind of meshing music festival, like EDM vibes with like lifestyle, hotel takeover, um sex positive vibes. Yeah. So you know, maybe saying a sex positive music festival hotel takeover with a playroom, with uh desire spaces.

SPEAKER_04 1:56

Oh, well, whatever you want to call it. Yeah, and like just you know, before we really jump into it, just reading some of the reviews and stuff. Now, obviously overwhelmingly everybody loves it. You know, it's been a very uh positive feedback. I think though some of the ones that maybe the feedback's not so great. I think they're trying to put this into a box of a traditional hotel takeover. Okay. Where, you know, there's just like, you know, a DJ at night, there's you know, during the day, there's not a whole lot, you know, go, you know, you you make friends, you go have lunch, you go side, see if there's something. I I think people are trying to put it in that category and not realize that we're really leaning into the music festival. Um so like for instance, we had DJs from like two till two, two in the morning.

SPEAKER_02 2:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 2:45

So like for instance, right now, the day DJs are not getting a whole lot of people in there because people are not quite getting it. But we hope that like eventually people will really start to see that just like if you went to a traditional music festival, you go for the music festival.

SPEAKER_03 3:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 3:03

Like we got some feedback, like people wanted like games and stuff like that. And I'm like, but you wouldn't want that at a traditional music festival, you wouldn't go to like EDC and be like, why didn't y'all have any meet and greet games? You know, because it's a music festival. Now we do try to sprinkle some opportunities to kind of help people mingle, but truly, it's kind of bridging that gap. And I think it's gonna take people a few of these to kind of really get what we're trying to do. It's different, it's not supposed to be the same. It's not supposed to be just like every other hotel takeover. If it was, go to what you know, there's that's what you like. Yeah, and and you know what? There's honestly, I like that too. You know, like I like that too. And I think there's a space for traditional hotel takeover, and then there's a space for somebody that maybe is really into like EDM music or you know, or or where it leans into that. So I I just I want to point that out just from reading the reviews.

SPEAKER_01 4:00

Well, another thing, you know, not to get too far sidetracked here, but another thing I will say is I don't think we really know exactly what it's supposed to be, right? Like this is kind of a new concept, right?

SPEAKER_04 4:12

Yeah, I think we have a vision. We're trying to execute it. I mean, are we gonna do perfect every time? No, we're gonna have to adjust a little, you know. Like for instance, we knew this what month are we in? March. This March one was gonna be a little different because there's no pull party because it's you know, it's March, it's not warm enough. We're in Atlanta. Um, it was all indoors, which was different than Gulf Bree. So we kind of knew some of our restrictions like going into it. So we're trying to like adjust and make it work, but we're not always gonna hit it perfectly.

SPEAKER_01 4:46

I agreed. All right. So let's get into let's get into the the nitty-gritty details and tell them everything that happened at Electric Pleasures Atlanta.

SPEAKER_04 4:55

So this was a Friday, Saturday party, but Dan wanted an entire workday for Wednesday and Thursday. So that meant late Tuesday night, you and I hit the road.

SPEAKER_01 5:06

Yeah, and and so that's you know, again, if you've been following us for a while, our takeovers that we've been doing for the last four years have all been takeovers of existing swingers clubs or takeovers at Secrets or you know, Bliss Cruises.

SPEAKER_04 5:20

But they have everything pretty much done for us, right?

SPEAKER_01 5:22

Where everything is done. So the difference with Electric Pleasures is we're going into a vanilla hotel that is not meant for music festivals, it's not meant for lifestyle parties, there's there's no any infrastructure. You know, most of these ballrooms didn't even have sound systems in them. So we we're we're setting that completely up from scratch uh and and trying to build the space. So it takes quite a bit of time. So it takes me about 12 hours. It took me 12 hours at this last event just to set up the main stage. Uh, and then, you know, like you said, we had decorations on top of that. We had the desire space, we had, you know, we had VIP spaces and couches. So, you know, it's a whole day just to do the music, sound and lights. And then I wanted another day to kind of do the rest of it, you know.

SPEAKER_04 6:06

Yeah, like fine-tune. So that's why we left and we literally just got there around midnight. We pulled up, unloaded our personal belongings, and went to bed. So that was that was our Tuesday. Um, Wednesday morning, like like you said, you got up about 10 and literally worked 12 hours in there. And I always feel really bad because I can't help you at all. Like, at all. Like most of the stuff is too heavy for me to even move, or you need a dolly, and there's one dolly. And it's you have to be the one to, I mean, I guess I could assist you and like hand you something, but it it's I feel like I would almost be in your way more than I would.

SPEAKER_01 6:45

Yeah, and this is something you know, we've we've talked about um amongst our staff is like how do we make this process quicker and faster, and how do you know how we get more efficient at it? And like you said, because this is a new event, you know, all this equipment is new. You know, I ordered it, I kind of learned how to put it together and set it up.

SPEAKER_04 7:04

Yeah. So it's gonna I think it's gonna take a while for me to we also don't really have the budget to have like a roadie that like or hire like a electronic. I mean, there's just not a lot of profit here too that would we would make no we barely make profit now. We would make zero profit if we hired.

SPEAKER_03 7:20

We lose money, yeah, probably. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 7:21

Um, if we hired. So you just kind of have to like take your time and do it. So I actually I I had gotten my uh pellets the week before and I was feeling kind of off. I don't know, we haven't determined what it was. I'm thinking it was more hormonal. I just felt very irritable. Nothing's changed with anything else in my body other than my hormones. And so I don't know if maybe they were just like kind of high. So I really just kind of like took a day off. Yeah, I just laid around and and was lazy and napped and read finish my book and just kind of um just kind of enjoyed a hotel room with no responsibilities, and it was lovely.

SPEAKER_01 8:03

Yeah, and I mean I think that it's good to take those kind of breaks. You know, it's something maybe we don't talk about much, but me and you work seven days a week. And usually those are like 10-hour days, you know, uh like this this content creation, hotel uh or event planning and party, you know, not to mention, you know, several other side projects that we have going on right now. It takes it takes a lot of bit of time. And um I think sometimes you do need an uh uh disconnect.

SPEAKER_04 8:35

And it was lovely because I was in a hotel room, right? You know, so like it wasn't like I was at home and I was like, oh, I should go do this. I should, you know, it was nice. I needed the day, I enjoyed it. But yeah, I mean, that was really like the bulk of our day Wednesday. There's not a whole lot to report other than you set up for 12 hours, and then we really couldn't do a whole lot going into Thursday because Taco Bell, of all places, had rented out so the ballroom, there's like dividers right.

SPEAKER_01 9:04

So there's three sections, yeah. And so the way they had set up the ballroom is they sectioned off where our main stage was going and they let us go in there and set up, but then the other two sections, they were having like a Taco Bell national conference or something. Something there was people from all over wearing Taco Bell. I didn't know they had so much Taco Bell merch. They had lunchboxes, they had jackets, they had hats, they were decked, t-shirts, they had pants.

SPEAKER_04 9:31

They were also all very lovely. They all spoke, they all were like, What are y'all doing over here? But their meeting wasn't over until four, and then it took them a little bit to get wrapped up. So we could, you know, Thursday is usually like our prep day. We could do stuff, but we really couldn't finish anything until they kind of got out of it. So we, you know, I was able to help, you know, all of our staff and everybody started coming in. So I was able, you know, I tried to help. We built futons and put up backdrops and stuff like that. So I mean, I tried really hard to help, you know, as much as I could, but there wasn't a whole lot even Thursday for me to do.

SPEAKER_01 10:09

Now I will say though, you know, we we we like you said Taco Bell left, you know, three, four o'clock or whatever, and then we got into the whole ballroom and finished setting it up. Best ballroom we've done yet.

SPEAKER_04 10:20

Yeah, it was really good.

SPEAKER_01 10:21

Uh, you know, shout out to you know Bobby and Jamie and you know, Diana and Mandy and the entire staff. Um, you know, like Lacey said, you know, this is only our second event and our first time in this hotel, and you know, everything's a little different, every setup's a little different, where you can, you know, how much room you have, where you can put stuff. Um, but I really thought the main ballroom and the desire space. So uh like I said, it was three sections. So we actually used two of the large sections where the main stage where the dancing and stuff happened. And then the third section was the the desire space, which is basically the playrooms, like what what you would a swinger would refer to. Uh and it that all turned out really well, I thought.

SPEAKER_04 10:57

It did. And the reviews like on the production was they were they thought the sound, the lights, everything was very, very good. So um we did get some like a few, like maybe the the the desire space could have been more, but honestly, we were really proud with what we were able to come up with because that's actually kind of hard to come up with mattresses and everything and like all the equipment that you need. So we were actually on a personal level pretty proud of what we were able to accomplish. Yeah, so I mean there was it'll get better and better every one we do, and especially, you know, as we make a little money, we invest it back and buy more lights and more mattresses and more, you know, equipment so we can do this. So it'll get better with time.

SPEAKER_01 11:40

Oh, I agree a hundred percent. Yeah, and I thought I thought they did very, a very uh good job. And I also like that the the desire space had like a little uh kind of a dungeon-y area, so it was a mix of play space and like dungeon, you know, it was really the this is a space where you can go and explore your fantasies. That's the kind of the idea of this brand, that the idea of that space, and and I felt like there was lots of things in there that would help you facilitate that.

SPEAKER_04 12:04

Yeah, no, I agree. Um, so Thursday night, well, actually before Thursday, um Juan Deepa, who's one of our DJs, and Allie, and then Max, who is another DJ, and then what is it Frack?

SPEAKER_01 12:20

His his um girlfriend girlfriend, I don't know what they're really yeah, I think it's not sure if they're married or not. No, they're not married. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 12:26

Anyway, they had invited us to go, they're foodies. You know, they like it doesn't matter where they go, they're gonna find good food. Good food, which Dan and I are not really though. See, well, we want good food, but we're not really gonna go out of our way to like find it. We're just gonna order something and hope for the best. But anyway, because they've taken us to a few really cool places so far. So they were on Wednesday night, they were like, hey, do y'all want to go to this southern restaurant, like southern food restaurant in Atlanta that's like Michelin rated or all these things.

SPEAKER_01 12:57

What do they call it? Soul food? Is that the is that the correct term for that?

SPEAKER_04 13:00

No, I think it was just southern. Yeah, it was just southern cuisine. Anyway, they were like, Do you want to go? And we were, you know, we were like, Yeah, you know, that'd be nice to kind of get away. We hadn't left the hotel in days, so we were like, sure. Well, the problem was I didn't really have any clothes. Like I had leggings and like two-piece bodysuits or like, you know, or a bodysuit or a two-piece. You had brought all rave clothes, yeah, and then like leggings to wear home. And then I brought like a pair of shorts in case it was hot. So I didn't really, I didn't really prepare for going to anyway. So shout out to Stacy and Sean. They actually went to Walmart and uh to pick up like, you know, they needed drinks and stuff. And I was like, can you find me a black sundress? So they actually brought me two back, so I was able to find something to wear. And we we ended up going to this restaurant, and I I think it's like Maine and Time, Time in Maine, something like that. Anyway, it was in Atlanta. It was so good. It was outside of Atlanta, it was probably like in Roswell or somewhere like that. It was so good.

SPEAKER_01 14:00

It was really good.

SPEAKER_04 14:01

I had fried chicken and macaroni and cheese, and it was, I mean, amazing. They had this like fancy cornbread with this like honey butter.

SPEAKER_01 14:10

Ugh, the butter.

SPEAKER_04 14:11

They had we had like pulled pork quesadillas, and the pork was like melting your mouth.

SPEAKER_01 14:16

You had the pork chop, which it was like a full rack pork chop thing, and it like they had cooked it on like a wood-fired uh grill, like in the backyard or something. Amazing.

SPEAKER_04 14:27

And then like the desserts, we ordered every dessert on the menu.

SPEAKER_01 14:30

Well, and this is part of why I like eating with Juan Deepa and Allie and all them. They just ordered everything. Like they were like, give me one of every dessert, give me one of every appetizer. Like we had kind of like a share, like everything.

SPEAKER_04 14:42

It was sort of like family salamos. We had like three appetizers, like four desserts. I it was it was a lot of fun to like share and get to try everything. Um, it was one of my favorite meals. Uh, of course, I'm born and raised in the South. I love Southern food. You're not the biggest fan, but that's saying something.

SPEAKER_01 15:00

I'm not a big fan of Southern food, and that was good.

SPEAKER_04 15:02

Yeah, but it was fun. But it was funny is I had on this like sweet little sun dress. Allie had her titties out. Um, Frank had like a two-piece like set, so her belly showing. These people in there did not know what hit them when we came walking in. You know, like we were obviously respectful, but we're still having like regular swinger, normal conversations, you know. And the just like sweet lady next to us was turning 80. They probably thought, Who the fuck are we sitting next to?

SPEAKER_01 15:31

She was hot, she was she was a very good-looking lady, very, very attractive for an 80-year-old.

SPEAKER_04 15:36

She looked maybe 60.

SPEAKER_01 15:37

I wanted to invite her back to our party.

SPEAKER_04 15:40

And then, like, at one point, Allie walked out of the bathroom, and because her tits are like up and out, and this guy goes, Well, hello there, or something like that. So we, you know, it needless to say, they didn't send anybody by us once.

SPEAKER_01 15:55

No, that room we were in emptied out pretty we we did close the restaurant. We were there late anyway.

SPEAKER_04 16:00

But we had at eight o'clock I don't think it was us, but they didn't they didn't put anybody near us on purpose, I don't think. So, anyway, after that, it was Diana who worked for us birthday. Yes, and we didn't know that when uh well I knew it was her birthday. I didn't realize that there was we didn't put two and two together. We didn't put two and two together, they were gonna do like a birthday dinner for her. And so when Allie and them invited us to dinner, we said yes, not knowing. So we felt really bad. And I actually sent Diana a message. I was like, hey, I we had no idea. And now we're like, I've got to dress, we're go, you know, and she was like, it's not a big deal. But they were gonna like bar hop after, so I was like, okay, we'll just come and meet up with your afternoon. Yeah, we'll hang out after him. She was like, perfect. So they we they picked this bar that was like literally 400 feet from where we were, which was perfect, and we got there and it was not the vibe.

SPEAKER_01 16:52

It was not the vibe, yeah. It was like a um looked like it was a converted gas station, yeah, like an old-fashioned gas station, which was really cool. It looked cool, and um, like all the doors and windows were open though, and it was kind of chilly that night. Like it was probably you know, upper 50s, maybe low 60s.

SPEAKER_04 17:07

Everybody there seemed a little snooty, all right.

SPEAKER_01 17:09

And nobody had brought jackets or coats or and so and then they were playing like there was some like guy playing a guitar or singing country music or something, which it could be fun, but it wasn't that great.

SPEAKER_04 17:20

Yeah. Well, and we were also there for like we were in rave like mode, not really like sit back and listen to a guitar by a fireplace.

SPEAKER_01 17:28

Yeah, and it was like cold outside, and then inside it was a little not really much places to sit. And I don't know. It wasn't like a dance and have fun kind of no, and we wanted to dance and have fun. So Dan was like, hey, let's just go back to the hotel room or hotel and hang out in the we we have a whole DJ equipment, we have lights, we have we have a a club back at the hotel we can use. Why why what are we doing here?

SPEAKER_04 17:52

Yeah, so we did. We went back, yeah. And um we just did like the JBL speakers, not a whole lot of, you know, because we didn't want to disrupt anybody that way.

SPEAKER_01 18:02

We kept it quiet, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 18:03

But the fire alarm did keep going off.

SPEAKER_01 18:05

Well, no. So we we get the music going and everybody's dancing and it was f fun and we were having a good time, and the girls were making TikToks and stuff with the you know the stage and the lights. Um and I got the bright idea to hit the fog machine so that you know you could see the lights and the lasers because the girls were making videos. What I didn't realize is um for the actual event, we had scheduled for the fire department to turn the fire alarm in the ballroom off is and then we were gonna have people like on what they call fire watch during the actual event. Well, we did not schedule that for Thursday. Yeah. So when I hit the fire or the when I hit the the fog machine, and this is we're probably pushing midnight at this point in time. So when I hit that, it it set the alarm off in the hotel. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 18:53

And the fire department actually came.

SPEAKER_01 18:55

They had to come, yeah. Yeah, it's a requirement.

SPEAKER_04 18:57

Um, which was a little funny. They ended up but the fire alarms went off all weekend. So can we talk why? But they so I know you said you had, but they kept going off.

SPEAKER_01 19:06

Well, I think, and I and I don't if you are somebody that works for the fire department, you're probably gonna hear what I say and make no, that's not exactly correct. But it's something about when you put them in that standby mode. They just don't every certain no, it's every certain hours they like it like resets or something. And that's why it it if you notice when it did beep, it beep like three times and then go back off. It didn't like go off continuously.

SPEAKER_04 19:29

And it wasn't calling nothing.

SPEAKER_01 19:30

And the in the fire department, they knew that it was off and they knew that we were monitoring it. So I don't know why.

SPEAKER_04 19:36

It was just more annoying than it yeah.

SPEAKER_01 19:38

So like every I don't it wasn't very often, but every three, four, five hours, whatever it was, it would like reset.

SPEAKER_04 19:44

Yeah, okay. So yeah, we hung out in the ballroom for a little while, not long, and we very quickly decided we needed to orgy.

SPEAKER_01 19:54

Yeah, you were turned up.

SPEAKER_04 19:56

A little. I actually like said I wanted to go, but then when I got to the room, I was like, oh, I could really because you know, think about it. We ate all that food.

SPEAKER_03 20:03

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_04 20:03

I was like, oh, I could really go to bed. But then I knew that there was a good chance we wouldn't get to play much of the weekend. So I kind of was like, okay, let's rally. I need to I need to rally because if I don't, there I this might be my only opportunity. Correct. So I sort of kind of gave myself like a little pep talk.

SPEAKER_01 20:20

Let's do this, Lacey.

SPEAKER_04 20:21

Yeah. So we ended up going in Southern Swap. I don't know. She's got it, Tiffany Bell. Yes. Uh is her new name on on the internet. But Southern Swap's room. Um, and she had two beds, and there was quite a few couples. I did think I think I wrote down it by saying, but I'm not gonna I try not, if you notice lately, I try not to list everybody like we used to.

SPEAKER_01 20:44

Well, because then if you forget somebody, or then you know, we have certain couples that don't necessarily want to.

SPEAKER_04 20:51

Yeah, so we just there was let's see, one, two, three, four couples in a single. I think one of the couples were together. I don't know if they were together or not. The one you the girl, Danny ended up breaking a girl.

SPEAKER_01 21:06

There was, yeah, so two single f guys, a single girl. Okay, she's single.

SPEAKER_04 21:10

Okay, I just accounted her as a group.

SPEAKER_01 21:12

Well, I think she was with a single male, but yeah, they're not together.

SPEAKER_04 21:15

Okay, gotcha, gotcha. But yeah, I don't remember who all you fucked, but I fucked like I think I fucked like three or four guys.

SPEAKER_03 21:21

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_04 21:22

And counting you would be the fourth. Um, and then kind of which was hot, you know, it was it was a great time. After that, I kind of took a step back again because I was, you know, I was kind of tired, pretty still pretty full. Also, I didn't want to completely break my pussy. We had gone to, we didn't podcast about it, but we went to a content house a few weeks ago and um I fucked eight guys. Yeah, in a in a week or a day, actually. And I had a I had a pretty gnarly UTI. I mean, as I should. I deserved it.

SPEAKER_01 21:55

You were in that, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 21:56

Um so I was really just trying to not.

SPEAKER_01 22:00

Preserve the pussy this year.

SPEAKER_04 22:01

Yeah, you know, because I didn't know where the weekend I hoped, you know, it'd go to more, but I just genuinely didn't know and I didn't want to go too too hard too soon. So but I mean I did I did fuck my fair share of few.

SPEAKER_01 22:14

I had sex with the majority, not all, but the majority of the girls in there.

SPEAKER_04 22:18

And there was And then you want to talk about breaking the pussy?

SPEAKER_01 22:21

Um, yeah, so uh you know, and I don't even know what name she goes by, but um the single female that was there apparently Well hold on first of all, can I say something?

SPEAKER_04 22:32

Yeah, she had came up to me on the dance floor before we went to War Gene. Before the fire alarm and was like, hey, I you know, I know we don't know each other super well, but like I am like super into dance. So if the opportunity would come up, I would like to play with him if he's interested. And so when we were in the room and I'd seen that you had played with quite a few girls, I was like, hey, just our friends, you know, most of the time. So our friends that you had played with before. I knew you had never engaged with her. I kind of was just like, hey, she mentioned this to me. She's really into you if that's something that you want to do.

SPEAKER_01 23:07

Yes. So obviously it was. It was towards the end when we were finishing up. You you had said you had you had mentioned that to me somewhere during the play session. And so I I was kind of it was kind of getting near the end, and I'm like, well, let me ask her if she if she wants to do it.

SPEAKER_04 23:19

Yeah, because everybody else was pretty much like wrapping up at this point.

unknown 23:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 23:23

And so it turns out she had not had much sex.

SPEAKER_04 23:25

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 23:26

And so uh me and her were engaging.

SPEAKER_04 23:30

Um actually I saw that she was bleeding. I was like, hey, and it wasn't like a bright red, it was almost like a like a watered down, like um, it was and it was not a lot, it was just a little.

SPEAKER_01 23:40

Yeah, yeah. And I was like, oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_04 23:42

And and she felt you could tell she felt bad and but honestly, it it happens really often, especially if you've not used to being with someone bigger or not had a lot of sex. It's not uncommon for right.

SPEAKER_01 23:54

We just, you know, I think the Tuesday talks this week was about um period having sex on your period. Yeah, so it is funny that we would get to this, but and again, this is why we always use protection because you never know when this kind of thing happens, and because it did happen, and that like you said, she didn't have much sex, and she probably I mean, I don't I was not the first guy she had had sex with this night, so it's probably you know, a little more than she was used to, and yeah, and so that happened. Uh, but I was wearing protection, it was like no big deal, you know.

SPEAKER_04 24:19

I went and took the condom off and she cleaned up and I was apologetic, she was apologetic, but um I just think I think it's worth mentioning because I think we should normalize that like it's not always perfect, you know, shit happens like that.

SPEAKER_01 24:32

And I think just being aware of that, especially like if people are, you know, if somebody's not used to certain sizes and then you have sex with a new partner, something like bleeding can happen, you know what I mean? So uh, you know, especially if you're having a lot more sex than usual, or you know, um, so that kind of stuff does happen. It's not the first time that's happened during sex and you know, during an orgy, and it probably won't be the last time. Um, but it wasn't a big deal.

SPEAKER_04 24:56

Yeah, agreed.

SPEAKER_01 24:58

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 24:58

And like after that, we literally just went to bed. That was it. We wrapped it up. I put my robe on while you were still fucking. I was like, okay, I'm done.

SPEAKER_01 25:07

All right, Dan. Time for bed.

SPEAKER_04 25:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:10

Uh all right. You we wanna, we still got a little bit of time. You want to take a break now? Let's take a little break. Hear from the partners and sponsors of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we get back, we'll get into the actual party. Yeah. The Friday and Saturday.

SPEAKER_02 25:23

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 25:23

All right, we'll be right back, guys. Lacey, one thing I don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ED medication.

SPEAKER_04 25:40

That is correct.

SPEAKER_01 25:41

Performance anxiety is 100% a real thing. Um, having sex in an orgy room with um a hundred people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom.

SPEAKER_04 25:51

It is.

SPEAKER_01 25:52

Um, so I like to have what we call a little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Um, shameless care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo.

SPEAKER_02 26:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 26:06

Which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it, so that one, you can be ready whenever, but also it's got that dose that you can take when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom and you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it. I mean, I used it at HEDO for the first time, and that that combination.

SPEAKER_04 26:24

You're going to pretty much switch to that, haven't you?

SPEAKER_01 26:26

That's basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. So if you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle uh and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it, kind of thing.

SPEAKER_04 26:38

And the really cool thing about shameless care is they don't set you up on a recurring plan. So you're not going to get all of this ED medication that you have in your nightstand built up. When it's time that you need more, you'll get an email from them and they'll ask you, hey, are you ready for another round? And you can respond back. Yes, please refill it, or no, I'm good right now. Thank you. So it's really cool because you don't end up with all these extra pills and spend a bunch of money that you're not, you know, you don't need to spend.

SPEAKER_01 27:08

Yeah. And my favorite part is you don't actually have to go into an office and talk to your family doctor or a military doctor. Um, you can do it all right online from the privacy of your home. Uh you just go to their website, you fill out some forms, the doctor reviews it, approves you, disapproves you, and you move on from there. So if you would like to get some medication, you can go to theswing nation.info, click on the little recommended apps and products, uh, scroll down to the shameless care icon, click on that, and that's going to take you over there. Uh, there's some discount codes there for you, so you can get a discount off your first order. But uh, I highly recommend if you're going to some events or parties, go get you some lifestyle insurance.

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SPEAKER_01 27:49

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SPEAKER_04 27:52

Dan, so when we're doing the podcast, a lot of times we'll tell the listeners we are filming our content for OnlyFans, right? So, how do they find that content if they want to see like the videos that go along with the stories?

SPEAKER_01 28:09

Yeah, so that's a that's a great question. So you are correct. We do film for OnlyFans. We, you know, when we're uh going to clubs and events, we talk about sometimes, oh, we we did OnlyFans with so and so. Uh so if they're interested in that, they can go to theswing nation.info uh and they'll they'll see right there on the front page uh a link to your OnlyFans. We are running promos. We are uh and it could be anywhere from 50 to 80 percent off uh right now.

SPEAKER_03 28:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 28:36

Um so I think right now it's 80% off. So you'd have to you know go grab that right away. But if you like watching Orgies, if you like watching threesomes, if they want to see you uh take DVP, they want to see how big of a dirty slut you actually are, they can see all that right on your OnlyFans page. Uh, we kind of call it it's like another tier of education.

SPEAKER_04 28:58

No, I was about to say that because I think like if you go to some of these major porn sites and you type in like swinging, you're going to find some things, and it it's usually not very good, let's be real. We actually will get and we try to get as many orgies on camera as we can because a lot of people that are joining the lifestyle, they want to see us do a full swap with a couple or they want to see us engage in an orgy. And these are the same people that we will have orgies with at the swinger club. With obviously without the cameras, we just kind of recreate it, you know, at opportunities that we can film. So if you're thinking about joining the lifestyle and you're like, man, I need to know, I need to see like how they're navigating this. Our OnlyFans can be kind of educational, if you ask me.

SPEAKER_01 29:45

I agree. So go over to theswing nation.info, click that blue and white button, and uh go sign up today. Yeah. Check it out. We appreciate you guys. Lacey, people are always asking, how do we get to a party or an event that you guys are hosting? Like, how do we find these things? Where did they exist?

SPEAKER_04 30:01

Yeah, because we're pretty open about where we're gonna be. So if you want to find these places, you need to check out swingersight.net.

SPEAKER_01 30:10

Right. So you can go to swingersight.net, sign up for a profile. Most of our friends, most of the people that are attend our events, all are on there and have profiles. So you can message them, link up with them before a party, get to know some people. Uh please become a diamond member. Okay. So this is the way that we keep are able to throw events. There, it's a way we're able to have staff. Uh, really, it's the the community that keeps those memberships on swingersciety.net that really keep this whole thing running.

SPEAKER_03 30:36

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 30:36

Um, if you're a diamond member, it gets you early access to tickets. Uh so you can get those VIP tickets in the clubs and you know, those preferred rooms at a place like Secrets. Um, our Diamond members usually grab all that up. So if if that's something that you're interested in, you definitely want to become a diamond member, or if you just want to support us, support what we're doing uh and help us pay our staff, please go sign up and be a diamond member. Yes. It's super helpful for us. Uh and you can do that by going to swingersociety.net.

SPEAKER_02 31:05

Correct.

SPEAKER_01 31:05

Uh, and sign up today. Hopefully, you come become part of our community, and we hope to see you at a future event. Yeah. Thanks, guys. All right. Welcome back. Welcome back. Thank you for listening to our sponsors. Lacey loves our sponsors. I do. Uh, all right. When we left you, we had just finished up a little orgy in uh Tiffany Bell's room with the Thursday night couples.

SPEAKER_04 31:33

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 31:34

Uh, which I always appreciate when people come out on Thursday night. It's really our best opportunity to enjoy the party. Uh and it, you know, yet secrets, people, man, people are coming in on Tuesdays and Wednesdays now. Um at Golf Breeze Electric Pleasures. I think we had 70 couples come in on Thursday. Uh Atlanta, it was a little bit less, uh, but I think, I mean, there were still probably 30, 40 couples there on Thursday night. So it's good to see everybody. Um, it was definitely good to see um all of those people in that room that night. Yeah. Um, so I had a great time. Yep. All right. So that brings us to Friday. Yeah. Which party day. Party day, right? So this is the first day of the main event.

SPEAKER_04 32:13

So we kind of slept in. Um, the party didn't technically start till two. You kind of got up, got in your shower, and headed out. I went ahead and got ready. My goal was to be ready like around 12, 1 o'clock, because I wanted to be able to go into the ballroom with it completely set up and ready to go and be able to make TikToks and videos before any I didn't know if a lot of people would like show up right when the doors open. I had no idea. So I wanted to be able to film some content for everybody, but with still being respectful of everyone else.

SPEAKER_02 32:46

Right.

SPEAKER_04 32:47

So um, so yeah, that's what I did. I got ready. Um, so the way electric pleasures works is there's no like traditional swinger themes. Uh, we try to give people directions, like we give you colors and stuff like that to kind of give you like guidance on what to wear, but really truly you can just wear whatever the hell you want. Yeah. You know, and that's kind of how the rave culture is. And so we're just trying to, you know, lean into that as much as we can.

SPEAKER_01 33:13

Yeah, and it's fun, you know, sometimes uh friend groups will do like matching costumes and stuff like that. Uh, like you said, we do do colors, so there's certain colors on Friday and Saturday, and we try to base that off like the colors of the location slash the event, right?

SPEAKER_04 33:28

So like for Gulf Breeze, we try to do like oceans in the sky. Atlanta was a little different. I don't know where we came up, so it was like blue and white, and then like magenta and orange.

SPEAKER_01 33:38

Yeah, like the Phoenix was on the poster. So these are supposed to be like Phoenixy colors.

SPEAKER_04 33:43

Oh, okay. I I didn't know that. Yeah. So anyway, that's where the colors came from. So if because there's like not a pull party going through that, you almost need like two outfits. I mean, you could re depends on when you start your day. You could really wear one, but I kind of did two.

SPEAKER_01 33:57

I've noticed that. I noticed it in Gulf Breeze, and and it's it seems like it's starting to become a thing. And I guess this is probably something that's a little different than uh a typical rave where you would probably just wear one outfit all day. It seems to me that during the day portion, people are wearing, so like this is like the 12 to 6, 7, 8 o'clock at night portion, people are wearing typical rave clothes, and this is what you did. But I saw several of the other girls do the same thing where they wear typical rave type clothes, and then at the night portion, they were wearing like lingerie in that same color theme.

SPEAKER_04 34:35

Yeah, I mean, that's just what I did because I didn't really want to violate two actual outfits, and in traditional swinger parties, usually at some point you switch into lingerie anyway. So that's kind of why I did it. I'm I don't know if that's the right way or the wrong way, but it seems to work for me. So that's what we're going. My only issue is I can't really make much content when I'm in my lingerie. Yeah, so I have to be kind of careful. Um, but anyway, so my day outfit was, you know, like this bell sleeve type outfit with these yeah, with these like little bottoms.

SPEAKER_01 35:12

Also too big for you.

SPEAKER_04 35:13

Yeah, I've recently lost like 15 pounds, and uh I ordered this probably like in January, maybe early February. So it was definitely a little big. I kind of had to like tuck, but I wasn't gonna like buy something else. I was just gonna make it work. So um, but yeah, I mean, so I went, you were getting everything started. I made videos and TikToks. Actually, Tiffany Bell and um Wicked Queen came down and made some with me.

SPEAKER_01 35:41

Yeah, the pictures of you guys are pretty cute. Okay, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 35:44

We just figured, you know, let's just go ahead and like knock some of this stuff out so we could have some fun. And so that's pretty much like what the bulk of my mid, like after lunch, you know, before like three, four o'clock kind of looked like. Daphne and Mike had to work, so they couldn't come over until like once their work was finished. So sh they came over and they they actually had adjoining rooms um with us. So they, you know, they came and got checked in. So I hung back out in the room for a little bit while she got ready or, you know, and I'd go out and come back in and stuff like that. And and you were just running around because you have to change so like the DJs change every hour or two.

SPEAKER_01 36:27

Yeah. So this this at this event, it was about every hour the DJs will switch out. And so because it's all my equipment and slash slash, I I s, you know, I change out like their name on the on the uh LED wall and stuff like that. Uh, I just kind of have to I just want to kind of be there for that. Now these DJs are experienced DJs and they could probably do it themselves. Uh maybe not so much. I don't think they, you know, they don't know the login to my computer to change the logo out and stuff like that, but they they could definitely switch the music over themselves. Uh so I just try to be there when they when they do that and make sure they got everything they need. And if they need water, you know, like just looking out for them. Stage manager kind of stuff.

SPEAKER_04 37:04

Yeah, no, I love that.

SPEAKER_01 37:05

Which I'm told I'm not supposed to do, but again, we can't hire somebody to do that.

SPEAKER_04 37:08

So it's why are you not supposed to do it? There should be somebody else.

SPEAKER_01 37:12

Well, I can guess I'm the host, right? So, like, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 37:15

Unfortunately, there's just we don't have the budget for that.

SPEAKER_01 37:17

Do it do it all, right? Yeah. So yeah, definitely did do that. Now, another thing I want to mention. So, the like you said, people started checking in probably around like one o'clock. Uh, the music started at two, and then at five o'clock, we actually had a candy-making um I wouldn't say class, I think we called it a candy-making meet and greet. Yeah. So if you don't know, candy in like rave culture is like these bracelets, um, and you you exchange them, right? And so there's like a little handshake thing you do. This this oh, is it peace, love, yeah, unity or something? And there's a little, you know, little hand symbols you do.

SPEAKER_04 37:49

But you make these bra, they're almost like friendship bracelets. Yeah. And then you make them and share them with each other. And they have you can have cute sayings, you can lean more into rave, you can lean more into swinger. I mean, it's just really.

SPEAKER_01 38:02

Some of them said like dirty things on them, like I love DP. Some of them just were said things like, you know, free love or you know, I don't, you know, whatever. So there was there was a lot, some of them just said electric pleasures on them. Uh, which I I I like, you know, again, our vision of this event was mixing these two cultures, right? Like this festival culture and this this lifestyle culture. And I think, you know, with things like candy, yeah, you you you saw it. I mean, I saw it several times where people would walk up to each other and hug and exchange bracelets. And you know, I think it's kind of it could be the reason for exchanging bracelets could be anything. It could be a I like your outfit. It could be, oh, I really enjoy dancing with you, or I really like your vibe. And and it's just kind of uh a way to connect with people. So I I liked having that um, you know, a time for people where they could go and make them bra those bracelets so that then they could go and exchange them later.

SPEAKER_04 38:53

Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. Um, so yeah, so after you know, probably know, about that time is when Daphne and Mike came out. And that I think, you know, because it was Friday and people a lot of people did not come in till Friday, I feel like it everything didn't really get started until about this time because people had to get checked in and get to their room and get unloaded and all the things before they really moved into the party.

SPEAKER_01 39:19

Yeah, Fridays are hard, especially up for hotel takeovers, because a lot of people that was their travel day, right? So, you know, some of these people got up at five o'clock in the morning and you know the air that you know the airports were a mess. And so people were, you know, waiting in lines and you know in the airport for eight, nine, ten hours, and and they're getting in there and they're tired. So I don't, it is a hard thing. I would suggest if you're gonna come to an electric pleasures event, try it if you can, if you have the ability to do so, try to come in on a Thursday. That way you can get like the full Friday and Saturday experience because I think both days were were nice. And I, you know, if you could do that, that'd be great. Um, but I also get that Fridays are hard for you know, if you have kids and jobs and not a lot of time off, that yeah, you know, coming today early is hard. So a Friday was a little different. Now, I would what I will say that was different from this event to Gulf Breeze is because it was all inside of a hotel and not like in a courtyard like we were in Gulf Breeze, it it seemed to separate us.

SPEAKER_04 40:13

Yeah, there was a couple of walls in between like the lobby area and the actual ballroom. So like there was a lot of people like where the candy making and all that, there was a lot of people out mingling and talking, but like the DJ couldn't see them. So like they could hear the music and vibe with the music, but the DJ was just then kind of you know Yeah, there's several times where like I'd walk through the lobby and there's I don't know, 50 to 100 people out there, and then you walk into the ballroom and there's like two people in there.

SPEAKER_01 40:43

Yeah, or 10 people, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 40:50

Where I think what I loved about Golf Bray is is you walk out your door and you can see everything, right? You know, so it was you know, you could very much like meet and mingle and hang out and you could the DJs could see everybody, right?

SPEAKER_01 41:04

So the worst thing is a DJ is playing to an empty room, like right. And you feel like you're maybe you're doing something wrong, or you're like, do the people not like my music? And well, in this situation, what the DJ didn't know is there's 50 people around the corner vibing there, you know, they were in there dancing and making candy bracelets and having a hell of a time. They just couldn't see it. But the DJ didn't know that they were there, right? Or couldn't see that they were there. So that that part um was different and and difficult.

SPEAKER_04 41:26

And maybe like in hindsight, should we brought tables and did the candy, you know, in the case?

SPEAKER_01 41:31

There was some talk about doing that, bringing the candy making into the main ballroom. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 41:35

So like we're learning, you know, we'll adjust.

SPEAKER_01 41:38

She also didn't want to, yeah, you know, I don't know how many people were being there dancing, so you didn't want to be in their way, you know. So like that was a hard, I guess, judgment call. And I get that's one of the areas I think we could adjust. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 41:46

Yeah. And also then there's lighting issue, you know, if the lights are low down in there and then you're trying to make bracelets and you can't see. I mean, so there's advantages and disadvantages no matter which way you do it.

SPEAKER_01 41:56

Right. Now I will say, um, from discussion, you know, between us and and our partners and stuff, I think the outdoor indoor space type hotels where you have an outdoor area that you can use, and then you know, and it going then going into a ballroom at night for the night party, I think that's more ideal for this type of event. I think it gives you more of that. I felt more festivally at Gulf Breeze than I did at Atlanta, even though I thought the ballroom Atlanta, the main stage, the club night.

SPEAKER_04 42:30

The hotel was better, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 42:35

And it's it's hard with weather, you know, this time of year, you know, we I don't you we could have been outdoors in Atlanta and everybody'd been freezing and it'd been terrible. So I mean, I think you know, we're gonna have to take the location of where we're at, the time of year, and and try to make a judgment call as to what the best place to be is. But uh uh I think going forward we are gonna target warm climates in outdoor spaces as much as possible.

SPEAKER_04 42:57

Yeah. Um, so just back to the party. It was a great night. Dan, you DJ'd, you did amazing. Uh Wandeepa DJ. I'm trying to think. We had a new DJ. What was his name? Uma Uma.

SPEAKER_01 43:09

Yeah. Yeah. And he's from Denver. He's a bass house uh DJ. You know, if you don't know, Denver is like the capital of bass music. Uh Max is from there, so he DJ'd uh Gulf Breeze. And uh he apparently went back and told all his DJ friends about how awesome this party was. And so uh the Denver DJ scene is definitely interested in Electric Pleasures. I love that. And uh Uma loved it. I mean, he was happy whole weekend, and he's like, I'm gonna go tell all my friends, and everybody needs to come to this party, and you guys are awesome, and the people are these are not lifestyle people, these are DJs, these are festival type you know, people that you know he's a pretty you know, he's got a significant following, and he's a you know, he's a real mainstream kind of DJ in in the base, you know, in the in the Denver kind of scene. Uh so it's nice to have people like that that are come from the outside and come from the music festival world and really connect with. our party and connect with the people and kind of see that this is different and there's something there's a different energy about this and it's it's new and it's exciting and and I want to be a part of it and that's I felt that from everybody that was had not experienced this type of event before and and and was there this weekend.

SPEAKER_04 44:15

Yeah and shout out to Sophie Justin Time Filthy Fragrancy they all did so good like uh I was very proud of everybody. Yeah I'm not like a super music person and I very much enjoyed all of it. So that's that's saying something.

SPEAKER_01 44:31

Part of what I love about this event you know is lifestyle parties, swinger parties are very much about the swinging first and the the party and the music is second. You know what I mean? And and we try we've always tried to put on the best party and play the best music that we can but that's how swinger parties are right it's it's more about the connection and the sex and the the playroom the meet and greets and stuff like that. Yeah you know it's swinger first and kind of party second where this party is more music first and it takes some of I think it takes some of the pressure off from the connection. I think it maybe makes some of the connecting more seem less forced and more natural. I I really like it. I really like it.

SPEAKER_04 45:13

I do too yeah I mean it was a great night uh I ended up Daphne and Mike went to bed like about midnight because he had you know was one of the ones that could gotten up at the crack dog. I stayed out till like 115 or so and then I once I knew there was like no way we were playing I was like okay I'm going to bed yeah and so I went to the room uh and you stayed you had to stay out until like three because you had to shut the music down. So I ended up staying up I don't know why I just felt like I needed you to be in the room with me for me to settle in. Uh-huh but I ended up waiting on you while you were out you know finishing everything up.

SPEAKER_01 45:51

Yeah and another thing I loved about this party and and I love about our our business partners I guess I'll say uh is that the music was supposed to start off shut off at two o'clock and two o'clock hit and there's still 50 60 people and you know and we didn't talk about much of the night party but it filled in I mean the club party at night was high energy I mean the dance floor was packed you know when I started DJing it was a little spotty and then people really filled in and uh you know we did a backstage pass this time and a lot of the people came up on stage and were dancing with me and um I actually got emotional a couple of times you know DJing and being like you know we've had a few moments where like like wow this is we created this like this you know look at this you know I mean I had a couple of those moments DJing this weekend and uh so the the energy on the dance floor Friday night was was amazing. Uh and so anyway two o'clock rolls around and the last DJ finishes up and uh DJ Sunshine comes up to me. Shout out to him he's a DJ out of Kansas a house DJ and he goes hey would it be all right if I DJ and we keep the party going a little longer he's like these people look like they still want to to dance. Yeah and so uh Bobby our business partner um you know was there and I'm like Bobby what do you think about just keeping the music going for a little while longer and he looked at me he's like I don't see any reason why not to why would we want to stop this yeah and so uh Sunshine jumped back on the deck you know he wasn't paid for that that was you know he he just he wanted to be a part of that and so he jumped back on the decks and he kept it going until about three almost 3 a.m um before and then people you know there was maybe a the the crowd of like 50 that was there you know they ended up mostly going to bed and there was a couple people left but uh then we shut it down but I like that you know like you and to be fair you don't see that that's something you don't see at lifestyle parties like we've been to several swinger parties midnight still 50 75 people still dancing on the dance floor at two o'clock in the morning it's not very common is not something you see very often and again it's because that I think that play is priority right so everybody leaves and they go to go fuck and that's that's fine but um there was definitely a group more of a group here that was there for the music and the dance floor and the energy um and so we kept it going. Yeah I love that and uh yeah so after we shut it down and we picked up the trash a little bit and cleaned up and then uh I went and jumped in bed with you.

SPEAKER_04 48:14

Yeah. So we went to sleep we woke up Saturday. So Saturday they had some really cool activity especially for I mean they were open to anybody. So I know I there was two classes one was a twerk class and then one was a lap dance class. I did not go to the twerk class because it was at 10 a.m accent she said twerk twerk say it again quick twerk twerk class twerk class she said so there was a twerking class at 10 a.m and then there was a lap dance class at one o'clock 10 a.m is entirely too early for me so you missed the twerking class yeah which I I somebody recorded a video and sent it to us because they were trying to show us how many people were in there. It was completely full and I I was low key kind of sad I didn't make it because it was actually looked really fun.

SPEAKER_01 49:00

But I got up and got ready and went to the lap dance class which was at one and there were several guys in the class with us I can't speak to the twerking class but I know for sure the lap dance class I think there was a few guys I think I remember seeing a few guys in the twerking classes as well yeah yeah so um literally they had came up with a little you know routine right so this is Ally and Frack yeah and this is Joe Juan Deepa's wife and Max's girlfriend who are professional pole dancers they're professional pole dancers dancers they also they teach these classes at their home gym yeah and you know so they so they brought we brought this to electric pleasures and and I really like these classes and so when we're talking about the Electric Pleasures brand you know classes is something that comes up this is something that is typical at lifestyle hotel takeovers that during the day to give people something to do uh that there's classes for me it was a really nice opportunity to meet people like with the lights on you know just hanging in like a no pressure environment that maybe like in a club when I'm dancing with all my friends I might not have had the opportunity to meet right so at Swinger Lifestyle parties you'll see things like speed dating you'll see things like uh consent classes you'll see things like uh classes on you know like lifestyle 101 or dealing with jealousy or you know maybe some more like medical STI type classes. Um a critique I have of that is often when I have either taught we've taught a few of these we've when we've taught these classes or we've seen those classes they don't get heavy participation people want to party right you know like if you give your average an opportunity 500 to a thousand dollars to go to a party for the weekend the next last thing you maybe want to do when you're drunk and hung over the next morning is go learn about S T to go to a S T D class. Not saying that that information isn't important that people shouldn't learn about it and know about it.

SPEAKER_04 50:59

I just think in this environment that's not what people are looking for that's like a hard choice you know um to make maybe if you're new and you're a little intimidated by the party and like putting yourself in all these classes to kind of like learn I think that's a great place. We've just we've taught them and and been a part of so many we just don't find there's a lot of participation.

SPEAKER_01 51:20

Yeah and I and I get why you know I mean because they're not they're not super exciting you know I mean and then when you pay money to go somewhere and you want to have fun some of those classes aren't the most fun so I love this idea and I was super excited.

SPEAKER_04 51:33

I love I'm not like one that learns choreography or am athletic at all.

SPEAKER_03 51:40

But you did so good.

SPEAKER_04 51:41

I actually really had a lot of fun like and I even like you know it once at the end we got they were allowed us to record ourselves doing it. So I like recorded it and then you were allowed to bring your like partner so you came and sat in a chair and I did a handstand and like flipped onto my lap. Yeah so it was it was a lot of fun I actually like honestly like I was like I could do this for exercise like I need to find one of these classes at home and start taking these because I felt like I worked my body but then it was still something that was like fun and enjoyable.

SPEAKER_01 52:09

Yeah no the girls did amazing good participation. Yes. I love the idea of this interactive fun you know we did yoga and I think we did a hand job class at Gulf Breeze which I think had pretty good participation. And then this one had excellent uh you know I think yoga in the morning is you know sexy yoga maybe topless yoga. Yeah that's fine things like that might be something we do in the future you know these lap dance classes these twerking classes uh you know I'm these girls are they're gonna come they have way more better ideas than me so I'm sure they'll come up with more you know they teach these classes all the time so um if that's something that's exciting and I also like this is all included this is part of your yeah and to be fair and this is another goal with Electric Pleasures and I don't mean to sell sound salesy here but uh is to keep the cost down right so you can get a ticket to for Friday and Saturday night include your room it's BYOB and you can be all in after taxes and sales tax and everything. And it's the the cheapest class I think is was just under$500 for this. And so if you've been in this space and you've gone to events and stuff like that, uh you're not going to find something much cheaper than that. And and I don't think you'll find anything I would you know if somebody knows of a party with higher production with more interactive with more that that's giving more to the community for cheaper than that please send me a link to their tickets because I want to talk to the event owners and see how they're doing it. Right? Because me and you know we're we're running an almost a zero profit budget to put these events on and and but that's because we're trying to put so much into them and we're doing that with the hopes that someday you know that this grows and it is prof more profitable for us. But but it really is all about the best experience for the community. And I swear to you that's what we're trying to do here. And we we're working hard every day to do that. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 54:05

Okay let's jump Mike in.

unknown 54:06

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 54:07

So after the lap dance class uh you and I had lunch together just you know sitting out which I actually like this hotel had like a pretty nice like dining it was like where they have their breakfast you know so most everybody had if they ordered like DoorDash or anything that we all had our meals kind of together which I genuinely very much enjoyed that. Um so after we had our lunch we went back to the room and that's when I started getting into like my my rave outfit for the day and me and Daphne actually decided to fully match because I had bought an outfit and she actually had already had it. And so when she was trying to come up with something I was like let's just match she was like why do you want to copy I was like girl let's just match so we decided to match but as I'm getting ready we realized that she has a pretty severe migraine so at this point I don't even know if she's gonna get out but you know like I brought her I can't I brought her some leftover of my lunch and then uh Mike went and got her some soup at the Olive Garden next door and we got her some Gatorade. So between all of it she really started to perk up. So about the time I'm finishing up getting ready she is um she's just now starting okay so you and I went upstairs and went to the room crawl which was okay so I I want to talk about a few things. The um a couple of the surveys said why was the room crawl only on the second floor? Why nobody went to the because it's it that was the party floor. So we sent out a list of rooms that were participants no that's not exactly true.

SPEAKER_01 55:46

So does somebody no no this is a little confusing and it it was a little confusing to me.

SPEAKER_04 55:51

Well I know that this hotel they call the third floor and the second floor the party floor but my understanding is they put all of the room car participants on the second floor. So now if you're on the third floor and you just decided to open your door that's lovely and you wanted and you had some drinks and you wanted to share that was awesome but that was not officially part of it.

SPEAKER_01 56:12

Yeah and I I think you know I will take a little criticism on this I you know again this is our first time using this hotel and trying to figure out exactly how to do this room crawl. I think we could have done a better job of explaining the difference between the second and third floor and why they were party floors and and the you know and maybe we could have tried to split the you know put rooms on both so that the crowd went to both.

SPEAKER_04 56:34

Yeah. Because it was pretty congested right when you got off the elevator.

SPEAKER_01 56:37

The idea of the second and third floor being the party floors is this hotel is actually almost split into two hotels. Right. So the second and third floor that were the party floors were in the main building closest to the the main um stage right so so and those rooms were a little bit more expensive and you're kind of paying for the location that you're co-located with the party. Gotcha. And then also the floors that you're on are where the room crawl and the the the party you know the that part of it's going to be right so you're you're paying for the kind of like at Gulf Breeze the interior rooms were a little more expensive than the exterior rooms because you're you're paying for the the the view you're paying to be part of the party those rooms are a little more expensive when we buy them from the hotel right so that that cost was factored into that. Similar for this that main hotel the rooms are a little more expensive. I don't know if they're a little more nicer I don't know what the difference was but and you're you're you're co-located in the main you didn't have to go down that hallway and way down and around the corner.

SPEAKER_04 57:35

Yeah but my understanding is they put all the room crawl participants together. Right.

SPEAKER_01 57:40

So there was some talk about if we had got enough people to to volunteer we also did not have many volunteers.

SPEAKER_04 57:47

And that's really what happened is we didn't have a lot of favors. Like we we had like three rooms and we try like so if if you win we have like an anonymous vote amongst um not really you and I it's more of like because we have we have people that go around we have people that vote and they they choose a winner. And so and if you win you get a free room. So there is incentive to want to do it you know but the problem is is we have to like kind of convince people and it's you know and even like secrets that we've been doing for a while we've got people that you know will do it every time we've got some that just don't want to do it at all. They'd rather participate and kind of bar you know room crawl. So we tried to get as many as we could but it was to the point where I had to like call in some favorites like a venture couple and be like I help a girl out. I need you're on this floor I need you to open your door and help me. So I mean and shout out to the ones that did that.

SPEAKER_01 58:43

Yeah and so I will say you know if you're listening and you went to Electric Pleasures either Gulf Breeze because we didn't have a lot of participation there either or um uh Atlanta everybody loves the room crawl yeah so uh for us to continue that we need more people to volunteer to host the room and it's a it is a great way to meet people um you know if if you are a content creator or if you have a podcast or if you have if you're on TikTok and you want to self-advertise yourself that's a great way to you know if you're sell merch or you know any of those type of things uh you know we we encourage you to to put that information out there and so you you're going to meet and interact with a lot of people and so it's a good opportunity uh uh for that kind of stuff uh but please participate in that yeah and so that again you know because we only had I think like four rooms or five I can't remember I think maybe after you pulled in favors we got up to like five rooms we put them all on the same floor so that it wasn't too spread out. In hindsight maybe we should have spread them out that way if more people had wanted to just open their door on the third floor they could have been a part of it.

SPEAKER_04 59:44

You know so I'll take some criticism for that we you know we're still figuring this out we could have been a little better organized on that now yeah but no but so I wanted like specifically talk everybody that did do a ring crawl y'all killed it uh the guy who dressed up as Santa him and his wife they are actually the ones that won which was I think because it was like so out of left field it probably stood out you know he was taking pictures on Santa's lap and they had like a balloon arch and then you know Avenger couple and I think uh Stacy actually joined in they did pineapple um moonshine which was strong as hell um there was a couple other people that had like the blue lights remember there was lights on every wall in their room yeah like everybody really did a good job and I will say that you don't have to spend a ton of money to do it it can be as simple or as elaborate as you don't have to give out shots even if you want to give out just stickers or candy or you know like there's no to participate in the room crawl you just have to open your door really like there's no mandatory having to give things away or you know yeah the typical is you hand out shots and maybe you know maybe a little something but uh you don't have to do that. Yeah. So uh but yeah shout out to all y'all so we went up did our lap and then came back down I think that was actually the time you needed to switch music or I think I was had to get ready to go DJ if I remember I had to go shower right no this was four o'clock in the afternoon. Oh okay never mind yeah sure so you I think we had to go switch the DJ or do something and I went to check on Daphne she was about ready about this time and so I waited on her we did our TikToks and all because we had done even though she was sick I made her do a couple of transitions. So if you go and look on like I'm like just sit here she's still cussing you about that I know she's like you're not my friend you made me go on the internet with no makeup I'm like you look beautiful hush it so um she she we did though finish those up and then shortly after that that's kind of when we headed to the party which is probably like between 4 30 and 5 which honestly I think because so many people are not quite used to the festival thing and it it because it's not like a secret that it's outdoors you know there wasn't a pool open I people didn't quite know what to do you know during the day. So I think we we were definitely not alone with getting out about that time. That seemed about the average time people were getting out.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:06

And then we really just kind of went in from there to our night portion of just you know dancing each night you DJ so I think one night you DJ'd at eight and one night you DJed at nine.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:18

Yeah it was eight Friday nine Saturday.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:20

And so what you and I did is that hour before you went on we kind of took that as like our respiratory I wanted to shower because you know I've been running around and sweaty and so you had like your staff shirt on all day so that gave you an opportunity to shower change we had dinner you know I think Friday night I'll change into my lingerie during that time. Saturday I actually waited until a little later because I really liked my outfit during the day Saturday. So that was kind of how we kind of you know if you go to a traditional hotel takeover or or like a secrets or something when there's a pool there's a definite like division of time where you have that opportunity to go and rest and change and this doesn't quite have that. So you almost have to make your own.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:06

Yeah there's been some talk about should we program in a break an hour kind of like secrets should we go till six seven do like a two hour break and then come back like is is that something we should program into the schedule tell us what do y'all think so I'm curious what people think about that. Because I do think like at Secrets it works but then but you're also transitioning from the pool to the club right so you you need to go shower you need to well our next one that's in June in Chattanooga is very much pool centric.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:34

We're gonna have a a stage and a DJ out by the pool. So like maybe that's a good opportunity to test that and see how that goes.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:42

Yeah run the DJ by the pool to like seven and then take a two hour break or maybe like just put a playlist on.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:46

So there's music you know like for people that are like lingering but maybe not like a full on DJ out there.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:52

I will say you know I we've been to I won't say which ones but we have been to other hotel takeovers and like four o'clock in the afternoon by the pool they just shut the music off.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:01

And then you don't get music again till nine o'clock at night and I don't like that. Like I hate killing the vibe like that. Yeah because then somebody has to like bring out their usually somebody will bring out a Bluetooth speaker and the party will keep going but uh I would love to keep our I want to keep the vibes going all weekend long.

SPEAKER_04 1:04:16

I don't really want there to be any hard stops but you are right we could throw a playlist on yeah and kind of maybe you know turn the music down a little bit and kind of encourage people to transition but yeah but without ending the party yeah um so you DJ'd well first of all all the DJs again killed it. Um you DJ'd at some point you baby you did so good.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:36

Yeah it was filthy frequency to me yeah to I think Uma to Joe to Max yeah I think was the the lineup and you know Sophie and Justin and all them were earlier in the day. Yeah um Sunshine was in there in the evening oh sunshine was in there after after me I think yeah yeah I think it was Sunshine Joe and then or Sunshine Wan Depot and then Max.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:01

Yeah yeah so um you you did so good everybody was like oh my god Dennis so good it was you got you were very complimented I was very proud of you um I will say at one point Daphne and I decided we were getting drunk you and Daphne so if you were at Electric Pleasures this weekend you got to see Lucy which is my drunk wife that's your drunk name I think it was just like we and you know when I say get drunk I had like two shots of fireball like it wasn't like I have video.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:34

So here's all right so something we haven't mentioned yet um one the pole dancers so Allie and Frack pole danced both Friday and Saturday night crushed it. Yeah um second is we brought in go go dancers locally from Atlanta they were adorable yeah and also crushed it yeah um professional their costumes were great on Friday night they had on these hat things that were like visors that they could see through Somehow, you, Daphne, and Tennessee girl Nicole got similar visors, like bingo, the clear plastic visors.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:10

I think they came from Where did they come from? I think they came from Diana's room. But we all had one. Why did they have where why would I dunno, but we were auditioning for the role of go-go dancers.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:21

Because these hats were similar to the ones that the go-go dancers were. Once you girls put these hats on, you thought you had to be go-go dancers.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:30

Yeah, except for we have no skill. So we were doing uh the running man.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:37

You were trying to do the moves they were doing, or similar moves to that, or your own interpretation of it was an interpretation of those.

SPEAKER_04 1:06:44

We did the running man, the like where you start up the lawnmower, the lawnmower, uh the sprinkler. There is quite a few videos, and it is hilarious of us.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:56

You were doing it on the stage, you were doing it in front of the stage, and you were doing it in front of the go-go dancers at one point in time, which they probably hated you. They thought probably thought you were making fun of them.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:06

No, not at all. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:08

No, they were But you were what you were really doing is aspiring to be them.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:12

Yeah, I wanted to be them when I grew up. Um, and at one point we ended up in the boys' bathroom.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:18

You did.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:19

Uh why? I don't really know.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:23

Um, I don't know how we got there. I remember being in the girl. I mean, not that I don't remember. I just uh I do remember, but I just don't remember the reason.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:30

Was it out of toilet paper or I kind of feel like maybe there wasn't napkins for my hands.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:34

I was trying to wash my hands and I saw somebody took us into the boys. I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:39

You were on a journey. You're like you were on the book. It was fun.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:43

I had a great time. I mean, I wasn't like so hammered I couldn't consent or anything. I was just feeling very loosey-goofy, you know, like I felt very like like I just wanted to laugh. It very similar to like if I had taken a gummy or something, you know, just happy.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:58

That's what I actually asked you. I said, Did you take a gummy? Like, what is going on?

SPEAKER_04 1:08:01

It was just very happy.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:02

You're like, no, just fireball. Just fireball. I'm just happy to be here.

SPEAKER_04 1:08:05

And I was making out with boys or bringing me fireball. We were sending out texts who has the fireball. Um SLS couple or uh he they're the VIP couple. We caught him everything. He always has fireball. And so I was like, I went up to him, I was like, Do you have any fireball? And his face like melted. He was like, No, I don't, I drank it all. So um Avenger couple had some. And so he came down and me and Daphne were making out with him.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:32

Bob from Nadia, New Orleans was there.

SPEAKER_04 1:08:35

Yeah, I'm a little worried what he thinks of us.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:38

What you said to him?

unknown 1:08:39

No.

SPEAKER_04 1:08:40

I think me and Daphne were play fighting in the hallway, though.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:43

Like one thing that didn't get mentioned is um Bob and his wife Friday night came out in Mexican garb.

SPEAKER_04 1:08:54

They were dressed up in some kind of he it had he told me the backstory. Um like there were costumes, and because a lot of the Mexican people didn't have a lot of money to make costumes, they would like rip like fabric and make these costumes out of these like ripped pieces of fabric. And then so that was the origin story behind. I don't know what they were recording.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:16

Well, and the funny thing is, this was I mean, it's a full head-to-toe, his face was covered, he had like this beard-looking thing. So, like in the costume, you could not tell who they were.

SPEAKER_04 1:09:25

No, but I wanted to record him.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:27

Precious Lacey goes up to him while he's dancing on the dance floor. He's dancing right in front of the LED board. There's no one nobody behind him, and she goes up to him and she goes, Excuse me, would it be okay if I record you? And Bob was he told me later. He's like, She was so cute. Like she was like, good on her for coming and asking that.

SPEAKER_04 1:09:45

I'm not going to like record you, even though you couldn't see him. I wasn't gonna record him without his consent. So um he appreciated that.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:53

So yeah, that was funny. Uh yeah, and you girls running around all night. I don't know. There's lots of tape and it's it's pretty hilarious.

SPEAKER_04 1:10:02

Yeah, it's so I mean, and at some point you I think you thought I was dronker than I was because you said that because we and her went to the me and her and Mike went to the room to like change.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:14

Okay, yeah. So the story on that is usually when Lacey starts getting tipsy, she starts doing cartwheels or gymnastics. And that is usually a sign that Lacey is on her way to going to bed.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:27

Uh, and you were not doing your traditional gymnastics. There was no cartwheel. There was no tumbles. But when I saw you doing the go-go dancing routine, I thought this is this is just a different version of that.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:41

Right. And so I said to a few of the husbands, I said, set your watch. One hour from now, Lacey is going to be in the bed, and you're like that, that's gonna be it for her.

SPEAKER_04 1:10:51

No, spoiler, I was up till 3 a.m.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:53

And it was about 45 minutes later, you and Daphne came up and you said, Hey, we're gonna go back to the room and change or do something, right?

SPEAKER_04 1:11:00

I think we knew we were getting ready to play. Right. So at this point, think about it though. I I get what you're saying, but I hadn't had any fireball or anything else drinking probably like an hour or two, you know, an hour and a half pushed into hours. So, like I had started to soak it.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:12

Had you kept drinking, I probably would have been correct. So you pulled back on the reins and stopped your drinking.

SPEAKER_04 1:11:17

There was no more fireball. We drank it all. Um, because there was like little shots. Right.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:23

So I said to the guys, she's going to bed. Like she's she's not going to end up in the playroom. Like, we're not going to the playroom tonight. Lacey's going to be in bed.

SPEAKER_04 1:11:30

So I went and changed, me and Daphne and Mike. We went and then we came back and I we were ready. And so, like, at some point you had come to the room because I can remember you. So there's also a radio that I decided to like a walkie-talkie, and I sung strawberry wine. I told everybody.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:48

This is the radio that we use for communication between our team, between security and the front desk.

SPEAKER_04 1:11:54

I told everybody that you were not circumcised.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:56

Our operations manager. Lacey got on said radio and was singing songs and was talking about my penis, and um it's not high, not professional. People are there's probably other podcasters are gonna critique this behavior.

SPEAKER_04 1:12:11

Well, I was a good time, so whatever. Podcasters are gonna critique me no matter if I do everything perfect or if I fuck up. So, you know what? I had fun and I didn't hurt anybody. So we're all as well.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:23

Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 1:12:24

So at some point I remember you Wait.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:26

So people had got me and said, no, Lacey wants to go to the playroom, Lacey wants to play. Uh okay, so in earlier in the night, I was sitting up on the stage and talking to Bobby, which is our partner, one of our partners in Electric Pleasures, and we were looking out at the stage. And so again, like we talked about before, right? The the main ballroom was three sections, two sections were the main stage, and then one section was the playroom. And uh, I don't know if I think he has said to me, wouldn't it be cool if we could open up that wall and the playroom just be part of the the party? Yeah, right? It'd just be there, just be in the immersed basically in the party. Yeah. I was like, that would be cool.

SPEAKER_02 1:13:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:04

And at this time when he said this, I I I was still of the mind that you're probably going to bed, right? Uh so then when you're like playroom, playroom, playroom, and everybody's like playroom, and we're getting a group together to go to the playroom, and I got you off the radio singing strawberry wine. I actually got on the radio and I messaged, uh, I said, Bobby, you got your radio on. He's like, Yeah. I said, We're headed to the playroom if you want to open the wall.

SPEAKER_04 1:13:28

It was actually really cool. So, like, as we were walking in, they were like pushing the wall back. And so now we can completely see the DJ, we can see the dance floor, and there was still a lot of party happening. This is midnight.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:42

Probably pushing 1 a.m. Okay. About the time that this happens, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:13:45

So it was super cool.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:46

So So what I didn't realize, so I messaged Bobby on the radio and I said, Bobby, open the wall. And he's like, All right, give me five minutes, right? What I didn't realize, what I don't know, I didn't know about walls and ballrooms, is you need a key to unlock the wall.

SPEAKER_04 1:14:00

How'd he get the key?

SPEAKER_01 1:14:01

The maintenance guy who runs this hotel was st stays there. So he was stays actually in a hotel in the hotel next door in a room. And so he Bobby, in no more than 10-15 minutes, managed to wake up because it's one o'clock in the house. I had no idea. The maintenance manager. Oh, now I feel better. A very nice Hispanic man. Oh, he's very nice. Uh super uh just amazing.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:24

He wakes him up, gets him to the main ballroom, gets the wall unlocked. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:32

Thank God.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:32

Gets the wall unlocked, and as our group is walking into the ballroom, they're pushing the wall back.

SPEAKER_04 1:14:38

Yeah, like it was perfect timing.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:40

Perfect timing.

SPEAKER_04 1:14:41

Yeah. So we immediately just kind of like went into play. And honestly, I don't know how people were invited. I don't know who told people to come. I don't know any of that. I just know that we got in there, like some of our friends had left and went to play, and then but some of them ended up in there. So shout out to the ones that ended up in the playroom with us.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:02

The the you know, the hardcore, the the the loyal um, not anybody else. I don't you guys everybody's great, but I don't blame them. I would have gone and probably two hours before that.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:14

Yeah, um, so but it was really it was a lot of fun. We orgyed, um, uh just like a few honorable mentions. One was um, I was fucking someone, I'll just say someone, and there was this lady.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:29

Yes, fangirl. She was fangirling.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:32

She had a fan, like a like a electric fan. Electric fan. And as I was on my back and the guy was on top of me, fucking not missionary, but not not missionary.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:42

He had you folded up like a pretzel.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:43

Yeah. And as she's fucking, or as he's fucking me, she is fanning our bodies to cool us off.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:49

And she's like encouraging, she's like, is that all you got? Is that all you got for to the guy? To the guy. Fuck her harder. Fuck her. And me and him are like, what the fuck? Is this real life?

SPEAKER_01 1:15:59

You kept laughing. You would stop and laugh.

SPEAKER_04 1:16:01

Because there's like, when else would this ever happen? You know, then the lady was as sweet as she could possibly be and beautiful.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:08

I think maybe a little inappropriate, like to get that close up into somebody, like maybe a little bit. Had that been a male, I think she would have been reprimanded.

SPEAKER_04 1:16:17

For sure. But she didn't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:18

But because she was an unassuming, cute cutish, you know, cute female.

SPEAKER_04 1:16:23

Let me say she she never touched anybody. Yeah, she wasn't in her personal space, but she never crossed that boundary.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:16:30

Um, I will say there were several single guys that were in the playroom that I felt like were a little creepy, though.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:37

But they weren't, they didn't do anything. They weren't disrespectful. They were not disrespectful. They actually came up to me and said, How do I get in on this? And I said, Well, what you need to do is if you want to play with somebody, you need to ask that that person. I said, Give everybody some space. But if if there's somebody that looks like they are available and you want to play with them, like approach them. Yeah. So the single male, he was like, Okay. And he he went and he approached two or three girls. I think they all said no, thank you.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:00

Me, being one of them. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:03

And uh, but when they said no thank you, he he was polite. He backed up.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:06

He was a very good looking guy. It was just that nobody knew him, and he was just because he was just sort of standing out.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:12

Standing out, hanging out, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:13

It gave off lurking a little bit, yeah. Yeah, it gave off a weird vibe. You know, he could have been a very wonderful guy.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:19

But had that man climbed in the bed with you with a fan, you probably would have felt uncomfortable. I would have probably felt like that. But I think that's a little bit of you know, whatever, gender privilege or whatever you want to call that.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:28

But I think yeah, yeah, for sure. Um, another time that I I think can think of something funny. At one point, I'm sitting on your face, sucking two dicks.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:37

I remember this.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:38

And you like start tapping me, and apparently I'd put all my weight down on your face.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:44

Yeah. So um, somebody with riding me, uh, that I'm a very big fan of riding me, and you jumped on my face, which I I love that. I love eating your pussy or anybody's pussy and getting fucked at the same time. That's a very pleasurable experience for me. Uh, and then while you were doing that, two of the other guys came up and they stood. Stood up. So you're sitting on my face. Uh I'm being, you know, somebody else is riding my dick. Um, and these two guys stand up on either side of me and you, and you're you're giving a double-handed blow job, slash hand job. Well, I think you forgot I was underneath you.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:17

I did.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:18

And you know, you went from weight on your knees, like hovering, uh, to your entire weight on my face. And listen, I have said in the past several times, like some women are very cautious to put weight onto your face. And I I am a person that's usually like, no, sit on my face. Like, yeah, sit on my face.

SPEAKER_04 1:18:40

I was probably dead weight.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:42

Uh you were dead weight. And it was like it wasn't so much it was more like you you were squishing my lips into my teeth, and that was painful, and my nose was like sideways, and it so it wasn't it wasn't even like you were sitting on my mouth, you were like crushing my face. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:18:59

Sorry about that.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:59

So I had to like tap and like yeah, because I might have died. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:03

Had you thank God you didn't kept I mean, it was what a good way, what a good way to go out there.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:07

I literally could have suffocated, yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:10

Um, so another thing I can uh mention is at one point I was fucking or finishing up or something, and I looked up and there was a double blowjob of a guy and a girl giving a guy a blowjob. So I love that that happened and happened and they felt safe because by play, especially with males, you know, can be intimidating. So I'm very happy in public spaces. Yes, in public spaces.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:35

I a lot of areas you'll see they have dedicated spaces for that. And we've had some conversations on whether that is inclusive or exclusive when you do that. Um, you know, we see feelings still. You know I've talked to people that say that they like that there's a safe space where they can feel safe to do that, and I've talked to other people that say by identifying that space, it is yeah, it's almost like you're saying they can't play a ball.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:59

So I there was a little of pride internally for that.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:02

Um, I will say I on that note, I actually had a conversation with somebody about that on whether um same-sex sex, and I think that they didn't say, but I'm assuming they were talking about male, male would be allowed in that space. And I said, I will fight somebody.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:18

Yeah. If they say that it's not a good thing. If they say that it cannot happen in that space, right? Yeah. Yeah, we were having an open dis that was our work, we have a work chat, and that was one of the questions somebody had asked, and we were like, we dare someone to say something because we will be the first to you know to stand up and fight for those people. So I also just wanted to uh give a shout out to the I'm not gonna name your names because I don't think that's necessary, but you know who you are, the ones that engaged in that. Thank you for showing people that it's okay and being brave. So that was, I think, worth mentioning.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:51

I agree.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:52

Um, anything else uh from the orgy that you no longer have another thing I would mention is that once we open the doors, that playroom, that play space was the busiest it had been all weekend. I think just having it open we did get some surveys saying that it should have been open the whole time. I don't I don't necessarily agree with that. I do think that maybe like nine or ten o'clock, maybe it should have opened. I do think that if we use that hotel in the future in that like the truth is we probably will never have another setup just like that. But if we if we go back there, I definitely think that's something that we will.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:28

Yeah, I think I can't remember the time, but I think the play space was open like 10 p.m. to like 3 a.m.

SPEAKER_04 1:21:33

Yeah. So I could see maybe like when it opens 12, 12.30.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:36

Yeah. No, I think I can think because if the people want it, I think you give people an opportunity to play with it closed, right? So that if they're not comfortable with it being a big open room. Um, but if you split it in half, if you said, okay, from 10 to 12.30 it's closed, and from 12 30 to 3 it's open, then you know, and especially put that on the schedule. I think people could then make a decision on what time they'd like to do it. Because I'm sure there's people that would not want that, and there would probably be that would. So I think giving both an opportunity could have been beneficial. For sure. But it was kind of it was a whim. We did it on a whim, and again, another a thing that I like about our business partners is that they're flexible like that, and um I think it was it ended up being a great thing. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:22:16

So after um we finished up, me and Mike and Daphne went back to the room and you had to stay and make sure everything was finished and and cut off and all that. But me and Daphne stayed up and laughed, and Mike was like, Yo, it's three o'clock in the morning, y'all need to go to bed. But we laughed, and if you watch my day in the life vlogs, you can see some of it, but we had so much fun.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:43

Yeah, I so again the music was supposed to cut off at 2 a.m.

SPEAKER_04 1:22:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:48

Um, DJ Sunshine again at 2 a.m. was like, this party's not over. And I was like, all right, I got you, bro. Like, do your thing. So he hopped up there for a while. The party was still not over.

SPEAKER_02 1:23:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:02

So then Justin, uh Justin Time, DJ Justin Time was like, uh, I I will DJ. Yeah. Uh and so then he hopped on there. I think the music went until about four o'clock in the morning. Yeah. If I remember, till about four o'clock in the morning. Uh and even then it was kind of like, okay, we we have to get up in a couple hours.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:24

We've got to break all this down.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:25

Love you guys, but you know, yeah, go play music in your room quietly.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:29

Yeah. So after that, you came to the room and you and I went to sleep.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:33

No, so I walk in the room. This is this is so I walk in the room and I'm fully expecting Lacey's gonna be asleep, Daphne's gonna be asleep. Like, I I'm thinking, like, I'm opening the door quietly, trying not to wake anybody.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:45

Daphne and I were in the bed together.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:47

You and Daphne are in the bed eating cheese and and and chips, chips and cheese from lunch or dinner and laughing hysterically.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:57

I don't even know.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:57

And I think you were actually on your phone.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:59

We were watching our TikTok.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:01

Replaying your TikToks, slash your um go-go dancer auditions, uh, slash what who knows whatever else was on your phones, and just giggling like children.

SPEAKER_04 1:24:13

Yeah, we were having fun.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:15

Uh, which honestly I was surprised at because I thought you'd be sleeping, but two warmed my heart quite a bit. Um you know, you've been on this emotional roller coaster lately. Uh you know, again, we talked about this a lot with you know your hormones and uh like you said, you even at the beginning of this party, you were you're on that roller coaster.

SPEAKER_04 1:24:37

We were a little worried going into it a little bit.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:40

And so to see you all night long, really, but even here at 4 30 in the morning, uh it reminded me, you know, I can think of like, you know, we say like children, but yeah, I can remember like having sleepovers with your friends, you know, when you were it was like go. Middle school, high school age and staying up all night and laughing about stupid stuff and solving all the world's problems and and connecting with people like that. And I think that's part of what the the magic of the lifestyle is is we grow up and we forget to have fun like that. We we forget to connect with other people besides our partner, uh, and even maybe even with our partner like that. Um, you know, this this whole idea of playing in the lifestyle, you know, some people don't like that term because you know, um but I think that that's part of what the magic is, right? Is it it's it's letting go of all of the life's adult problems and just being there in an authentic moment with your friends and having silly goofy fun. Yeah, and and and maybe sexual fun, you know what I mean? And pleasurable fun. Yeah. Uh and it's okay to do that. And I I think it's okay to do that.

SPEAKER_04 1:25:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:51

Uh and so it's good to see you guys doing that.

SPEAKER_04 1:25:53

It was fun. I enjoyed it. And so after that, we went to bed and then Sunday we got up, Daphne and Mike left, and you had to go tear her down. So we ended you ended up working all day.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:07

Seven, eight hours on Sunday.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:08

Then we we didn't even get home until about midnight um on Sunday night, leading, or maybe 11, maybe 11.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:15

It was an hour difference. I think it was close to midnight when we got back.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:18

Yeah, um, and yeah, we've just kind of been recouping the last couple of days. Uh the trailer's still full, we haven't unpacked anything. Um, we have secrets in a couple weeks, so we are just, you know.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:29

Unpack, reset, repack.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:31

Yeah. We have three weeks off, which is lovely. So I'm looking forward to that.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:36

Uh yeah, and that sums up electric pleasures.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:39

Uh really great event. I think this is building. I think this brand is building um several.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:44

And we're learning.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:45

So many people came up to us over the weekend and was like, this is amazing. Uh, you know, Bob from Nadia, New Orleans was there. You know, he he you know, he said a lot of positive things. Uh, I think everybody that was there felt it. I I definitely felt it at Gulf Breeze when we did that event. Uh, and I think you know, this one is it's continuing to grow. Um, I'm really excited for Chattanooga. You know, this is gonna be a warm pool party outdoors with music. Uh, you know, we're hoping maybe to bring in some food trucks and stuff and really give it that festival vibe. And then we're gonna move indoors into the club at night, you know, small spaces, and you know, it's it's gonna be it's gonna be something. So if you haven't had the opportunity to attend an electric pleasures event, I really, you know, June, Chattanooga, it's it's Pride Month. We're really leaning into celebrating Pride, we're leaning into the Pride colors. Um, I don't care who you are. I don't care if you're straight by trans, if you're uh a swinger, a not a swinger, you're you're a kink person. Um, if you are looking for an event, there's just a vanilla person that you just want to come out and have fun with with people. Um that's what this event's about. If you like music, if you like to dance, if you like pool parties, yeah, um uh you're welcome here. You're you're safe here. Uh nobody's gonna force you to do or or pressure you to do anything that you don't want to do. Uh so go check it out. And you can swingerside.net has the links to all the electric pleasures parties, or you can go electric-pleasures.com. I think if you just search electric pleasures parties, Google that or something, you you'll probably find us um that way. Yep. Uh, but we we'd love to see you. Uh other than that, we got secrets in three weeks, like you said, it's a sold-out event. Day passes are always available. There are there's a recommended, if you go to swingersighty.net, there's recommended hotel information.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:34

And then while we're on the topic of secrets, just if you want to go to a secrets, like if you wanted to go to this one and didn't get a room, uh now is the time to start planning because we will release the next secrets at this current secret.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:50

Right. But only to the people that are there, but only to the people that are there.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:54

But if you are not there and you know, hey, I need to be in line whenever it becomes available to the open public. Go ahead and get a diamond membership on twenty yearside.net. Um, it opens up the week after. Yeah, to them. So um, so definitely now's the time to start because the problem is it's like literally right now, we are getting several emails a day to be added to the waited list, and we are it's been sold out for five months.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:24

Not exaggerating. We've probably had over a hundred couples message us trying to get on the that waiting list.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:30

So if you know you want to go in September, it's in September. If you know you want to go, go ahead and start kind of pre-planning, you know, figure out how well you know how you're gonna pay for it. You know, obviously we have down payments, and there's an like you only, I think you can put down like a hundred or it's it's like a hundred dollars to save you a room, yeah. Um so go ahead and just start making the plans, sign up to be a diamond member so you have you know one of the first few accesses to it. If you're not at Secrets, um, and we'll be we'll excited to do it again in September.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:59

Yeah, and I don't I don't know if you can pull up the flyer and give the exact details, but something different we're doing at this secrets that we haven't done in the past. So normally on Sundays at Secrets, you have to go get in line and book your room for the next secrets, right? And that it's first come, first serve, whoever's in that line. This time, um, to help avoid the craziness of the line, what we're doing in a uh it's a week or two before secrets is going to keep. So yeah, so uh April 1st to April 12th, we're giving those people who have a room for this secrets the opportunity to rebook that same room. You can't change rooms, but that same room for the next secrets. Yeah. Um so that way you don't have to get up and get in line. If you already have the room, you can save it for the next secrets.

SPEAKER_04 1:30:48

Now, if you want to change anything or email that you gotta get back in line. You gotta get back in line. But if you're comfortable with the room that you're in and you want to save it, all you have to do is email Mandy at swingorcity.net. Um, again, we've sent out newsletters, we've put out the flyers. So definitely, I know a lot of people don't read all that stuff. So if you're going to Secrets and that's something that you're interested in, go and find that. So set a reminder on your phone or whatever, because they're these are selling out quicker and quicker.

SPEAKER_01 1:31:16

Yeah, and and so that's part of the point. So if you have a room, you can save it. And we've got a little criticism about if that's fair or not, but from my perspective and Lacey's perspective, if you're gonna come to every secrets and you're gonna book ahead of time and you want to save your room and come back to the next secrets, why would I not let you? Why would I not give you the opportunity? You know, like I want to reward the people that are loyal to us and that to come to every party, right? And I realize that might lead into a situation where you like have to like get grandfathered into a room. Um, but I think that's a good problem to have. Like, you know, like I I I'm so thankful that so many of our friends come to every single one of these uh and and get really invested in their rooms and and attached to them, and that it's you know, it it means something to come back year after year after year and and party with us in that room. So uh I want to give them the opportunity to come back.

SPEAKER_04 1:32:04

It's like our way of saying thank you.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:05

Right to the people that that are loyal and come every time. And and there's don't trust me, rooms will open up, there'll be rooms available for you, and you know, just really any room works, right? You're not in your room very much anyway. So I think people put sometimes too much um thought into the room, the room stuff. But uh yeah, so the first through the 12th, if you if you have a room and you want to rebook it for the next secrets, which is in September. I don't know if we if I know the exact dates.

SPEAKER_04 1:32:28

Yeah, I just had them.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:29

Hold on, I can tell you uh for our next secrets, we we'd love to be able to it's September 17th through the 19th. Right, and then that will go on sale to the people at Secrets on Sunday. It goes to sale to Diamond members the week after, and then if there are still rooms available, it'll go open to the public after that.

SPEAKER_04 1:32:45

Yeah, so diamond member sale starts April 24th and public sale is May 1st.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:51

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 1:32:52

So just put those notes, put those down if you're um secrets turned into a whole thing.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:58

Yeah, like it's it's and I I I'm a very appreciative. We put a lot of work in the secrets and we've been building that for years now. And and so the fact that people love it so much, I I know I appreciate it. I know the the staff at Secrets loves our group and loves what we do and and looks forward to having us there every time.

SPEAKER_04 1:33:13

So same. I love going.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:15

All right. Well, anything else for the Swing Nation Listeners? I think we crushed it. I hope to see you at the next uh Secrets Party, Electric Pleasures Party. Uh go to swingorciety.net, check out the calendar. We got all of our upcoming parties. We're getting it ready to go to Utah here in a couple months. So uh get more information on that. Swingrocciety.net, Bliss Cruise, HEDO, all the information is there.

SPEAKER_02 1:33:35

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:35

All right, anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? Yeah. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples, be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys.

SPEAKER_04 1:33:43

Bye.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:44

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