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Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle | Episode 102

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, a listener writes in with a question a lot of couples are thinking but not asking out loud — when is it actually okay to go bare in the lifestyle, and how do you even start that conversation? They want to know what the rules are, who decides, and how couples navigate that level of trust with someone outside their primary relationship.

Dan and Lacy tackle it head-on. They break down the testing conversation, the trust conversation, and the "are we all genuinely on the same page" conversation — because going bare isn't just a physical decision, it's a relationship one.

At the end of the day, it comes down to communication, testing, and real mutual consent. Whether you've thought about it or never considered it, this episode gives you the framework to have the conversation the right way.

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SPEAKER_03

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SPEAKER_00

Welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast, a podcast by swingers for swingers, where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle. Come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe. Interview the experts. Learn and grow together. Join the nation.

SPEAKER_01

Tuesday talks. Just send your questions to Dan and Lake. Tuesday talks. Tuesday talks.

SPEAKER_03

Talking Tuesday with Dan and Lazy. How about that high note?

SPEAKER_00

That's perfect. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation podcast. We are your hosts, Northern Guy and Southern Girl. And we are back with another rendition of Tuesday Talks.

SPEAKER_03

We are. We're Dan and Wazy. That's me.

SPEAKER_00

Uh okay. I was waiting for a reaction from that. Better than that, I guess. Uh all right. So you have got this week's Tuesday talk question, and it came from what? A message, an email, a text to the phone.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, from a guy named Wes.

SPEAKER_00

Wes. And he sent a dick pic, right?

SPEAKER_03

He sent several.

SPEAKER_00

Oh how's it looking?

SPEAKER_03

It's a pretty good dick. I I would prefer a little less hair.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, he needs to trim a little more?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, but I mean some girls, but that's that's just my opinion. He doesn't need to trim from on my account. If if he's getting action and girls love it, you do you.

SPEAKER_00

I wonder we've had, you know, we've had a little conversation about the bush is back. We've seen more females with um pubic hair. I I don't think I don't feel the same way for males.

SPEAKER_03

I don't feel like um I just it's a lot. I don't, yeah, I don't usually if I have if I suck a guy's dick that has a lot of I just cover it like my hand with the uh um but you know it's funny, I follow this like stri a stripper on TikTok. A male stripper? No, a girl. And uh this weekend she was talking about she did she grew a bush out and like shaved it in the shape of a heart and she got like tons of tips. So I think honestly, that's pretty cool. I think like for that case, I would totally tip a stripper that had like a cold bush like that.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, well, I feel like you know, because all the girls were smooth for so long, anything that's different, people are attracted to something that's different, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Things that are like well taken care of, you know. So like it doesn't matter if it's a bush or if it's what whatever it is, as long as it's like tidy, I think that's okay. Yeah, all right.

SPEAKER_00

We got off on a TV. It's got nothing to do with this week's question, but uh nothing except for that you got dick pictures pictures and he's got some hair on his dick, apparently. Yeah, uh okay. But let's read this week's question.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, it says, When is it acceptable to go raw dog in the lifestyle? Where is it acceptable and how do you prepare if that's your plan? Thanks, Wes.

SPEAKER_00

All right, so Wes would like to know when it's acceptable to go raw dog. And if you're unfamiliar with the term raw dog, that's that's a a kind of a graphic way of saying without protection.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, it's like I've heard bareback a lot. I've not heard raw dog a lot, so it's kind of funny. Um, but I'm I think full disclosure, this is the second time we've recorded this podcast. And Dan's.

SPEAKER_00

Lacey gets heated about this.

SPEAKER_03

I thought, well, we had had kind of like some life events happen, and then we recorded this, and I like got pretty heated over the subject. And I I really think it was more of like just life emotions.

SPEAKER_00

You just needed to release some of the things.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, yeah, I think so. I mean, I do I feel very, very um strongly about my opinions here. Uh, but I'm also going to proceed with caution because I don't want to come across like aggressive or judgmental of people that choose to not use condom's hell. Dan and I were actually talking about it after we've we've played without condoms, so I I I needed to slow my roll. Dan had to put me in check. And he did. And so I asked him if we could re-record because, like, in hindsight, it was probably a little too much.

SPEAKER_00

Okay.

SPEAKER_03

So let's let's get into it.

SPEAKER_00

All right, so let's talk about this again.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

All right. So the question is when is it uh you can say it again? When is it appropriate?

SPEAKER_03

Or when is it accepted and acceptable and how do you prepare? So I think the where that's actually something we didn't I got we got went off way on a tangent in the last one we recorded. Like, um, but that's a really good question because I I guess if you if this is something that you choose to do, would you think that like a player to me? I think more of like a private situation is probably a a better place than like a oh I don't think the where matters as much.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, you don't? No, I don't think it's like, oh, we can do this in private, but we're not gonna do this. I think it's as long as you've made that decision with the partners that you're engaging with, where it actually happens.

SPEAKER_03

I guess I'm thinking like orgy setting and like maybe like you have a partner that you don't use protection with, but then you use protection with other people in the orgy, that can be a little confusing. So um that was my that was my only thing. Like if this is something that you like, if you have a partner that you have made that decision to not wear protection with, to me, it makes more sense to like go into a room and do it rather than like if you really think about it.

SPEAKER_00

I mean, me and you have sex without protection in every playroom.

SPEAKER_03

But so yeah, no, it's I mean, you're not wrong. Yeah, I'm just thinking out loud, I guess.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, but I could see I guess if you made the decision to not use protection with one particular partner for like a private reason, you would probably not publicly display that.

SPEAKER_03

I think like in orgy settings, if I'm engaging with a guy and he's not using protection with his wife, it makes sense to me. However, if he's engaging with other people without a condom, you might be judgmental of that. Not judgmental, but kind of curious, like you know, but like I need to be able to make the best decision for my body. And if you're using no protection with someone else and then coming to I just kind of want to know. So I think in an orgy situation, kind of how we have our talks in the beginning about boundaries and stuff like that. I think that would if if you choose to do that, that would be a good place to share that.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, all right, and then I think that that may that maybe is like the second part of the conversation, but what was the first the first question?

SPEAKER_03

When is it acceptable?

SPEAKER_00

When is acceptable? Yeah, I guess we jumped around. So okay, so let's talk about that. All right. So in it, let's just talk about this from uh our experience level, right? So if you're new to lifestyle and condom usage is coming up, right? You're gonna hear us and several other content creators or educators say always use protection, right? And and I I stand by that. Yeah, we try to do that. Right, I think that is should be the standard that in the lifestyle we should try to keep each other uh safe so that using condoms and getting regularly tested, I think should be some part of everybody's like standard repertoire, right? Like that's what you that should be the default for most people is get tested regularly and use protection. All right. But now if we apply that to practical use, right, it it's not always the case. I cannot tell sit here on the podcast and tell people all swingers are always are always being safe and always using condoms. They're not always, right? They're not it's not happening. Um and separate from the swinger world, another world that we're very involved with, and we see a lot of non-condom usage, and and and you actually had a recent experience with this yourself, is in the content creator space, right? So it is very, very common for content creators and adult porn stars to not use protection. You just did a wifey scene, and that was part of the agreement with wifey was that.

SPEAKER_03

Well, that was October, but yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, yeah, right. That you would not use protection, and that that was a me and you had to have a sit-down real conversation about that and see if that was something we were comfortable doing. One, just for your own safety, but then two, also because we have this platform and we talk so much about condom usage.

SPEAKER_03

We take it very seriously, so I didn't want to come across as like a hypocrite. And honestly, that's why we've chosen to wear protection in all of our content 99% of the time. We do have one or two cases where there had like the wifey, and we had another one where the female was very allergic to every type of condom you could possibly get. And we we made a decision based on that. But 99% of the time, we always wear content. And honestly, we're very successful in the content creation world. We don't have people that think, oh, our content's not as good because we wear condoms. You know, I feel like we have still been very successful and still maintaining that as cl as close to that 100% as we possibly can.

SPEAKER_00

Agreed. Yeah. Um, so I think, you know, when it comes down to it, I guess let's explain why we have made that decision to stick with always using condoms, even though we're getting tested regularly, even though when we participate in things like uh content houses, you know, everybody goes and gets tested before going into a content house. Why do we stick with condom music?

SPEAKER_03

So I'm gonna share the story. We've shared the story several times on the podcast. I think it's worth mentioning here. Dan and I had like our favorite couple. Every couple, it doesn't matter who you are, you always have your favorite couple that you always hang out with. And we had become in our barrier. This is prior to the podcast, everything. Um, and uh I can remember one time him looking at you and being like, hey man, we trust y'all. You don't have to use a condom when you fuck my wife. We're cool with y'all, we trust you. And so we just kind of rolled with it because we kind of felt the same way. We trusted them. We tried to do that.

SPEAKER_00

We've been friends for like over a year. Yeah, we was um she was in the medical profession, so somebody that you would think okay is knowledgeable of this.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, and he was also a professional in his own right, in his profession. They were these were outstanding citizens, right? So we really felt like we could trust them. We knew that we weren't going off and doing anything that we weren't telling them about and stuff like that. So, like we kind of felt like there was this level of trust, right? And so we did that for a while.

SPEAKER_00

And our understanding was we would not use protection with each other, but we we were using it with everybody else, right?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, yeah. So, or if I think even maybe one one other person, you know, like I don't that's trusted circle, trusted circle, yeah, but not just yeah. Anyway, so fast forward we went on a lifestyle vacation with them, and there we had not seen them in a little while. And then all of a sudden, they we started watching them engage and play, and they were not using condoms, especially him with anybody, with anyone, and was actively like having sex with people in like a pool where it was like right in front of like you could see everything, and then we kept we saw him going from like lady to lady to lady, and these were not people that we would have probably engaged with, not judging him.

SPEAKER_00

I mean, you do you, you know, but like at least we're and they weren't even people he really knew that well, yeah, which was the more concerning part, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, so we kind of went back to our room and we made the decision. We're not we never played with him again after that day. Um, we we just kind of made that decision, and honestly, it was a very big wake-up call. It was right about the time the podcast was starting, and so and then at the same time the podcast is starting, we're starting to learn about all of these STDs and STIs, and we're learning about, you know, it everybody in lifestyle says, Oh, we get tested, we get tested, but we were actually like preaching it and we were trying to spread that. And so it was it all kind of happened about the same time. And I think the decision was just we kind of felt burned. We kind of felt like we were taken advantage of. Um, we felt like we could trust these people, and like we kind of saw how much they valued that trust kind of firsthand. So that was the ultimate decision that led us to at the end of the day, in the lifestyle, I can only trust Dan, and Dan can only trust me. We still to this day have amazing friends, Daphne and Mike. They're our like best friends in lifestyle. We use protection with them every single time we play. It's not a matter of not trusting anymore, it's more of like you can only trust yourselves.

SPEAKER_00

You know? I agree, I agree with that. Yeah, uh, and I think even on, you know, to take that even a step further, you know, like you said, we've we've kind of dug into STDs and STIs and we've had in-depth conversations with different um doctors and things here on the podcast. And I think it could be possible that everybody's getting tested and still not know if they have something, right? So a lot of these STDs and STIs have like incubation periods. You know, I'm thinking about things like MGen. Um you might go out and you get a cleared test, but but maybe you don't have enough antibodies, you have already been exposed to something and you don't have enough antibodies in your system for that test to then pop hot, you know, or to to to recognize that there there is this bacteria in your body. So there is a possibility that even with a cleared test, you know, you could still have something and still be spreading it. Uh, and that was, you know, hearing that from doctors was like, I had no idea.

SPEAKER_03

And not only hearing that, seeing it from our friends, um, be on and not even our close friends, like friends of friends, because we have this podcast and because we are so frank and so honest about this, we actually tend to find out when people test positive. I feel like people trust us, they come to us, they know that we have a lot of people that we can help them get in touch with so they can, you know, get on the right medications and stuff. So we tend to get reached out to. And just watching people over the years, kind of like how they've tested positive, or maybe like one test positive, but the spouse hasn't, or vice versa. It's just, it's kind of been an eye-opener for us. And at this point, we just have kind of made the decision that it's really not worth the risk. And and don't get me wrong, we love our lifestyle friends. We think they're amazing and we think they're great people, but the truth is you really don't know someone just interacting once a month or once every couple of months. We hope and pray that everybody is doing the right things, but the truth is we just genuinely do not know. And something else stook out to me lately is someone I tend to like creep in the swinger Reddit uh world. Um, I like kind of seeing what people are asking, what questions they have. It kind of helps us, like when it's time to come up with podcasts that we, you know, we need to record, kind of like, what are people worried about or what's issues? And you know, somebody I've seen several posts recently about like STD and STI testing and how like people are like, we've been in Lysol for 10 years and no one has ever asked us. We do it because that's the right thing to do, but we've never once ever been asked for it, which honestly is very and like lots of people were chiming in. It wasn't just one or two people, so many people chimed in and said, Oh yeah, we've never been asked either. And so I just genuinely I know that swingers do get tested and I know that swingers use protection, but I don't know that they're doing it the proper way.

SPEAKER_00

All the way.

SPEAKER_03

I think they have really good intentions, you know. I think they might go to the doctor and say, hey, give me a full panel. That doctor might not know what a full panel is, not because that doctor is not smart, but because there's no such thing as a standard full panel for STD SAIs.

SPEAKER_00

Well, and if they don't know that they're non-monogamous, what they're testing them for as a married person is probably.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, and then and and then if you're not sharing it, you know. I mean, like let's say, for instance, you you pay$7,000 to go to HETO and you go get tested, and then it shows that you have something, but but you know, you know, if you go, no one's probably gonna ask for it. Do you just go anyway? I mean, there's just there's a lot of like, I don't know what's the cra you just we don't know these people. Like at the end of the day, even the people that we think we know the best, we genuinely don't know. And some of them, and we've even talked about this on the podcast before, some of them you get an antibiotic shot two weeks later, you're good to go. It's not a big deal. But there's other uh these infections that can can affect your life, you know, forever. And is it really worth like 20, 30 minutes of bliss without a condom? And and personally, from a female perspective, I can't even I have to physically put my hand down there and make sure there's a condom because I can't feel it doesn't feel any different for me as a female. So that that's my opinion on it.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I and I I think something, you know, so that's why we've made the decision to always use condoms because one, uh, you know, you can only trust your partner, and two, even with people with the best intentions that are getting tested regularly, could unknowingly be spreading something, right?

SPEAKER_03

Or even if or if if you don't know them very well, they might get tested and then all the girls want to go out to the bar and start drinking, and somebody ends up going home with someone and has sex, and they're like, Well, shit, I don't really want to go spend three or four or five hundred dollars to go be tested again. I'm just not gonna tell anybody. Right.

SPEAKER_00

Because even when people are getting tested, it's it's not like the day of, right? It's these all these tests are days old or weeks old or months old.

SPEAKER_03

And like that doesn't make you a bad person. That just means you kind of fucked up one night. And that and then you've you've accidentally exposed an entire friend group because nobody wanted to use condoms. So yeah.

SPEAKER_00

All right. So that that's all of that is true, right? And that's why we make the decision to use condoms. That being said, you're still not 100% safe. No, you're not, right? Condoms don't protect against everything, right? Things like herpes can can spread from skin-to-skin contact.

SPEAKER_03

Anything oral.

SPEAKER_00

There are several oral bacteria that can spread. We we do not use protection for oral sex, right? Which is a risk. We we understand we're accepting that risk.

SPEAKER_03

Any anytime you engage sexually with anyone, non-monogamous, monogamous, however you want to look at it, you're there is an assumed risk. And you just have to determine what what level of risk you're willing to take. So you have to balance it out.

SPEAKER_00

Right. And so I don't I don't know. Maybe, you know, maybe some people are, you know, well, we don't use uh condoms for oral anyway, so we're already at risk a lot, you know.

SPEAKER_03

They're not wrong. And also I can see like if you have a really close couple that you're like, you know, they're your people and you like get tested and then go on vacation together and you know nobody did anything else. I mean, I can under I can logistically see why people would do that. I guess on the flip side, like I love having sex and I love having all of these fun, exciting things, but is it really worth like having herpes for the rest of my life? Not really. Yeah, you know, and so I guess, Wes, to answer your question, is you have to assume, you have to figure out where you want to assume that risk, like where you're comfortable with and who you're comfortable with. Um, I personally feel like we've seen more and more non-condom usage lately. Um, I don't know if it's just because we've done a few content houses or if it's just I've seen people in swinging situations with like didn't even bring condoms, and I've been kind of floored. Um, and it it's a little unsettling, and then seeing the Reddit post about no one ever asked for my test results. Um, it's a little unsettling, but ultimately the decision is yours. We're just two imperfect people trying to navigate this and give you our opinion the best we can.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, and I do think that there is a way to do unprotected sex safely. Yeah, you know, and in wifey, I think would be the example of that, or even some of these content houses would be kind of the example of that, right? The best thing you can do is everybody goes out and gets tested, nobody engages with anybody else and then goes to a content house.

SPEAKER_03

My issue is that is a lot of times these content houses, you don't know these people. You might think you do, but the truth is you really don't. You know, uh so you you want to hope that you're all there and we have the best intentions, you all really want to protect each other and stuff like that. But the truth is you you again, you can only trust you and your partner, right? You can't you you want to hope and assume that they're making the right decisions, but ultimately you have no control over it and you're just kind of at their mercy.

SPEAKER_00

No, I 100% agree.

SPEAKER_03

So, can we can we hold on? Do we wrap it up? His last part was if if you decide to do it, how do you plan? So, um, if if I was him, if if this is something that you really want to do, I there is lots of places that you can go get tested. There's at-home testing, there's you can go and get tested and then have the results within 24 hours. I would say that would probably be in this situation, probably be the best. Because if you mail that test off, you need to like not have sex with anybody else for like a week or two in order to get those results. They're not, it depends on where you use. All of them have different turn times. Right. Something like I know my status or talent testing, you go and you have your test like within the next day.

SPEAKER_00

Right.

SPEAKER_03

So it's a shorter window.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I think for content creation, and even for if you know, if you're just a swinger that's looking to engage without condoms, that is the best case scenario, right? You want to try to narrow that window. Right. The smaller that window, the better. So you go get tested, you get your results quick, and then you know, if you get your if you get tested, get results and are at like a content house that weekend and there's only a couple days in there, it's pretty it's less risk than it being weeks before you get.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, but some of them, like I know like the state that we're in, they give free tests, and sometimes we'll get those when we have like a month or so off and we don't necessarily need um test results. Yeah. Like we'll do those as kind of like an in between, and that can take, you know, like it takes like a week to get it to you. Then you do it and then you mail it off, and it takes like two. Weeks to get your results. That's a long period of I want to go fuck someone. So you just again you're gonna have to figure out what works for you and um and and and make an educated decision.

SPEAKER_00

Right. And at the end of the day, that test is only as good as the minute you took it, right? As soon as you left that room and engaged with anybody else that's no longer.

SPEAKER_03

See on Reddit where they're like, all a test is is proof that someone cares about their health. They're willing to go and spend the money and get it taken. It really doesn't prove that they don't have anything because we don't know what they've done before it that hasn't shown up. We don't know what they've done in between that test and now. I think that's a really educated way to look at it.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. So I think if you do make that decision to play without condoms, um, it's really about trust at the end of the day, yeah, and doing the right thing. So uh I hope that helps answer your question, Wes. And uh I hope that maybe helps clarify it. If you are, you know, I think we could we could talk about STDs and condoms and all this all day long. I would encourage if you if you don't know much about STIs to go back and listen to the podcast we've done with like Doctor Store, where we're gonna deep dive into some of these different um STIs and STDs, because even I some of them are very confusing in the ways they spread and incubation periods, and you know, if you've never heard of MGen and or you know, oral, some of this stuff can spread orally and stuff like that. And I know that's some of this is new concepts to people, right? And so making sure people are getting tested for the right things in the right places uh at the right times is important. So go back and listen to those. Educate yourself. And then I, you know, the next the next thing I was encouraged would encourage you is to kind of break the stigma that Lacey said. So what we started to doing is before we meet up with people, we'll just send our test results, right? We'll drop it in a group chat and we'll send it. Um, when we go and get tested, we'll take a picture of us with the band-aids on our arms, you know, with the wraps on our arms. Yeah, and we'll drop that in a group check and be in and just kind of like putting it out there. Yeah. Hey, we're doing this and kind of encourage people to do it.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, if you make it just kind of part of your conversation, it doesn't have to be like an awkward, weird thing, like, oh, we're going to get tested, and like, oh, that's awesome. And then they kind of give someone else a reason to be like, oh, well, I probably need to do that. Yeah, or we're going Friday, or we're, you know, and then once your test results are like, hey guys, just I don't know if we're gonna hook up this weekend or what's gonna happen, but just in case, I wanted to go ahead and send you our results so that way, you know.

SPEAKER_00

Everybody feels safe.

SPEAKER_03

And then again, if you have results from someone, don't assume that that means no condom. You always want to have a conversation.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, no, a hundred percent. Yeah. Uh, we have seen that in rooms where people try to slide in without condoms, and so because they saw us at the testing facility, right?

SPEAKER_03

Which I love that we were all there because that still means but you still have to wear condom. I'm sorry. Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. All right. So hopefully that helps answer your question. If you have a Tuesday talk question, we would love to hear from you. A few different ways you can get a hold of us. You can email us at theswing nation at gmail.com, uh, or you can send us an audio file that way, or you can call or text, and that phone number is 972-302-7716. One more time.

SPEAKER_03

972-302-7716.

SPEAKER_00

So how how are we doing on questions?

SPEAKER_03

We could use a few more. Yeah. Yeah, we could use a few more. Okay. So last week I said, I feel like last week I said we had a lot. And now I'm looking at it, I don't feel like we have. Yes, I have the phone, but I'm not gonna be. You're you're gonna think people are gonna get mad at me because they're gonna be trying to sex me and I'm not gonna respond to you.

SPEAKER_00

No, she's just not going to, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

No, I mean, I'll try to answer. I mean, I'm not. That's a lie.

SPEAKER_00

Are people trying to sext you up on the phone?

SPEAKER_03

Not really, no. Not really. I mean, the truth is, is I'm running some socials, so I have the phone, so I at least have to check it like once a day. And I'm seeing your questions. Like we've gotten, we got one Thursday of last week, we got two on Tuesday of last week. So they've all been really good questions. I don't know. Maybe I need to make Dan the graphic that says I got your question, thank you. So I can quickly respond. I'm just yeah, I don't I don't have a I don't I don't really want to like have Yeah, you don't want to get sucked into that phone and be chit-chatting with people all day. Yeah, I could totally see how that could very easily turn into an issue. And I don't uh a lot, I don't even have my notifications on on our social media because I don't, it's a lot. It could become a lot, so it's no disrespect to anybody. I appreciate y'all. Thank you so much for reaching out. Um, it's just I'm really I'm not gonna chit-chat. I love you, but I'm not, it's not personal.

SPEAKER_00

All right. Well, anything else for the swing nation listeners?

SPEAKER_03

No, that's it.

SPEAKER_00

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