The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
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Naughty N'awlins Party 1: Drinking, Dancing, and DJing
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Naughty N'awlins Part 1: Drinking, Dancing and DJing | Episode 254
Dan and Lacy are back from Naughty N’awlins—and they have plenty of stories to tell! In Part 1 of their New Orleans recap, they take listeners along for the beginning of their wild weekend filled with old friends, unforgettable parties, plenty of drinks, and a little bit of trouble.
The trip kicks off with a visit to Colette’s New Orleans, where Dan and Lacy reconnect with friends they have missed and settle into the Naughty N’awlins energy. From there, they dive into the event’s daytime festivities, sharing what it was like to spend their afternoons drinking, dancing, socializing, and soaking up the party atmosphere.
Dan also steps behind the DJ booth for one of the nighttime parties and helps host one of the biggest events of the entire weekend—Kasidie’s legendary Foam Party at The Beach. Between the music, foam, drinks, and packed dance floor, the party definitely lives up to the hype.
Of course, it would not be a Naughty N’awlins recap without sharing a little of the naughty. Dan and Lacy open up about an encounter involving two other couples and how the experience unfolded.
This is only the beginning of their New Orleans adventure, so make sure you come back for Part 2 to hear about the rest of their trip, the moments they are still talking about, and even more Naughty N’awlins stories.
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SPEAKER_07Welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast, a podcast by swingers for swingers, where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle. Come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe. Interview the experts. Learn and grow together. Join the nation. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast. We are your hosts, Northern Guy and Southern Girl. And we are back with another full-length episode of the Swing Nation Podcast.
SPEAKER_01We are.
SPEAKER_07Fresh off the trail. We just got back from naughty New Orleans, and we're sitting down in the studio to tell you all about it while it's fresh in our memories. And also because we have no other podcast recorded. And uh we gotta get it out there.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, well, but we like we do that on purpose.
SPEAKER_07We do. I I don't, you know, I don't listen to a lot of other swinger podcasts, um, but I do think we are one of the ones that keep like pretty current and fresh. Like we're not telling you stories from a year ago or two years ago or even six months ago.
SPEAKER_01Which there's nothing wrong with that.
SPEAKER_07No, I don't know how they do that. I would forget.
SPEAKER_01I would forget. Also, like they're prioritizing their themselves. And we are stubborn and somehow just keep putting ourselves through this.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, but I do think people like, I mean, I think people like, you know, they go to Naughty, they come back from Naughty, and then kind of get to hear about it. Yeah, I think it's good. Or maybe you missed Naughty, but you saw all the TikToks and Instagrams and the pictures, and then we put the episode out, and they're like, oh, let me hear about what happened at Naughty this year. Yeah. So I think it's good. Yeah, agreed. But yes, it does equal late nights editing and to try to get everything. Whoa, I have no idea what that even was.
SPEAKER_01It's also 83 degrees in our office, which is lovely. I promise we're not, we're not, I feel like we're complaining.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, what are you complaining about? All right, so let's get into it. I don't know if we're gonna make this all in one episode. If we have to get split up into two, I guess we will see because Naughty is kind of a long, crazy week and there's a lot to talk about. Um, but let's get into it. Let's not delay.
SPEAKER_01Okay, so um Naughty actually is a Wednesday through Sunday event. Uh, we usually go down the day before because you know, we like to have our booth and everything set up around lunchtime, the day it starts. So that we're not morning people. So that would have been really hard for us to get up and be there by the time.
SPEAKER_07Well, and it's a six, almost seven-hour drive. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. So we actually left Tuesday around 11. Tara, who actually is the one that edits this podcast, hey Tara, if when she's listening to this, um, she actually was going to Naughty as a single female and had to ask if she could ride with us. So she drove to our house and we all got in your truck, and then we left our house about 11 and drove down.
SPEAKER_06Yes. It's a little, little uh road trip.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was fun. So we left around 11 and we got to New Orleans about 5:30 or 6. And um, so you have to get your pass and to get to be a part of Naughty. You've seen the lanyards that we wear, which is not a like it wasn't necessarily that we had to have it right away, but the problem was we wanted to go to collect's at night, and the desk was only open till like seven. And Tara was staying like a half a mile down the road. So we had to like you had to sit in this like long line to get into our hotel in the truck, waiting to kind of get up to the front. While me and Tara jumped out, she went and got her pass. We got back in the truck, then we took her to her Airbnb. I helped her get everything unloaded, get to her room, then I came back, and then me and you went, got our passes.
SPEAKER_04No, we got our passes before we took her to the because we had to because it was getting ready to go. Oh yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01So she sat in the truck while with us while so yeah. So anyway, long story short, it took us a while to get like actually to our room.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, so if you have never been to Naughty in New Orleans, the check-in process is difficult and it's not Naughty's fault. They are very well organized. I don't you can't organize it any better than I think they have. Uh, but the problem is it's there's 3,000 people trying to check into an event slash hotel.
SPEAKER_01And I think they said 40% came on Tuesday.
SPEAKER_07And that is the nice part that half showed up early, and that helps split it up a little bit. Um, because I think Wednesday it was even more crazy in the lobby than it was on Tuesday.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Uh, but so if anyway, if you're going to Naughty, it is a good idea if you if you can, if your schedule allows it to go down a day early for check-in. Uh, if you do get there on the normal Wednesday check-in day, just be prepared that it it might take you a couple hours to get through, you know, because you've got you're in downtown New Orleans, so to just getting pulled up to the hotel is a process. Yeah. Then unloading your stuff, uh, you know, getting the bell hops to get, you know, help you get your whole ass process. It's a whole thing. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. So honestly, it probably took us two hours by the time we like between taking her, us waiting in the line to check in, um, which not the end of the world. We got to meet a lot of fun like followers. As we were standing in line, a lot of people got to come up to us. We got to say hello. It was it was great. So, but it was quite the process. And we had decided that we were gonna go to Colette. Tara had never been, it's kind of like the pre-party to Naughty.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I think uh Tuesday night is like the official Colette, Naughty New Orleans pre-party.
SPEAKER_01And some people go to Colette like throughout the week. We don't typically we like being at the actual event, you know, Naughty. Um, so this is like our one opportunity basically to go. So we knew we wanted to do that. So by the time we got checked in, got in our room, kind of we unpacked a little because we wanted to be sort of organized and ready for a crazy week. We unpacked, I ordered us some dinner. By the time we did all of that, it was basically like time to get ready for Colette. I think we went at like nine or ten. That was pretty much like our time period each night. So um, there was no theme for Colette, it's just kind of come as you are. You which they have Colette typically is a pretty strict dress code. They kind of laxed it a little bit this week for Naughty. I'd seen several people saying, like in the app and stuff, that Colette had that is a good pro tip.
SPEAKER_07So if you are thinking about going to Naughty New Orleans and you do want to go either to Colette on the pre-party night, which is Tuesday, or they kind of host a post-party night on Sunday, and then you can even go to the club during the week. It is important to remember bring bring pants and a button, like bring a collette outfit.
SPEAKER_01But they they were letting people in. They were, yeah.
SPEAKER_07Yes, because it's always an issue and it's always a problem.
SPEAKER_01But in the past, we've got to be. In the past, we've had to go find some jeans for Dan because it's July and he didn't bring jeans. Um, so anyway, we got dressed, made a few TikToks, of course. We walked and picked up Tara because she was actually on the way. She's about halfway.
SPEAKER_07So yeah, it's it's uh maybe a mile to the club. I don't even think it's that far. I think it's like a half mile or three-quarters of a mile. So it's a pretty easy walk uh over to the club.
SPEAKER_01Not in heels. Like I brought my flip-flops and walked in my flip-flops and then.
SPEAKER_07But it just so happened to be that Tara's half our hotel was like halfway to the club. So we just walked over to her hotel, picked her up, and then walked over to the Colette's was like a complete vibe.
SPEAKER_01I mean, it was, I think we were at fire capacity though. It was very, very busy. But it's like coming home. Does that make sense? Like, we don't know that we're gonna know anybody, but then we somehow find everybody. Does that I mean, like, is that a good explanation of it? We never we never know who's gonna be there. We don't really communicate with anybody before. Then we just show up and then we just see all these people that we see, you know, because it's like obviously there's people that that are new that come in and out every year, but there is a like a group that is always there.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I mean, it's you know, one of the things I always say about the lifestyle is the you know, the reasons I like it is because of the community. And uh I think this is evident in Naughty New Orleans, you know, even us, we've kind of built our own community. You know, we've been doing takeovers for you know five plus years now, and we've been all over the country, and it's it's interesting that every time we go to a big event like this, uh, whether it's a Naughty New Orleans or a Bliss cruise, you always meet people that you've met from somewhere else, and they kind of all come together for these big convention type events. And it's even nice for me to see, you know, we're like, oh yeah, we met this couple in Salt Lake, and oh, this couple's from uh Louisville, and then, you know, oh, here are our friends from North Carolina, and then that friend group all kind of then melds together and makes like a bigger friend group, you know, like yeah, all you know, we have friends that we met in North Carolina that are best friends with people that are from the other side of the country, and they all kind of met through this community, which is I think is pretty cool.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it's very cool. It was a good night. We took Tara on a tour because Colette has upstairs, downstairs. So you would honestly not even really know it was a swingers club unless you went and found it. Um, but really our night consisted of dancing, yeah, like in and meet and mingling, yeah. Meet and mingling. Yeah, I mean, it was a really good time. Um, very hot. Like I said, a lot of people, but an awesome good time. A lot of people were fucking like it was like 10:30, and people are already like upstairs fucking, which hats off to you. Way to get it in. We usually don't do a whole lot of fucking on that first night. We just sort of like are getting our feet wet, so to speak.
SPEAKER_07We don't for a few reasons. One, good luck finding a bed at Colette at any time during those nights. Uh, and then two, yeah, I think we it's a travel day and you come in and we're just kind of it's more of like a meet and greet. Yeah, it's like a mingle, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was fun. I mean, we had a good time. We stayed till a little after midnight or so, maybe 1230. And then we walked Tara to her room and then came back to ours. I'm pretty sure me and you fucked.
SPEAKER_07We did. I'm pretty sure we had anal sex when I came in your ass. But uh yeah. So if y'all are wondering how the anal uh yeah, she just got her pellets put back in a what a couple weeks ago? Yeah. And so now you're I think you're nearing back to that peak. Yeah. And so you're back to wanting to be a dirty slut again.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_07Which is nice. Yes, yeah.
SPEAKER_01So yeah, so I mean, first night, awesome. Got to see lots of people, a lot of fun, happy to be there, ready for a crazy week, basically.
SPEAKER_07Exactly. All right, so let's get into day two.
SPEAKER_01Okay, so on Wednesday, the first thing we really had was like three o'clock. So we had some time. So first thing we did, well, we slept in, obviously. And then we got up and we went and set up our table. So we have a stagnant table that we put blow pops and like giveaways on, which y'all, we went through eight boxes of blow pops.
SPEAKER_07How much money is that?
SPEAKER_01About $130.
SPEAKER_07Oh, it's not that.
SPEAKER_01No, it's not, it's about $50. I have to get them at Sam's Club. That's the key.
SPEAKER_07We need to like probably double that for next time.
SPEAKER_01Yes, and I think I doubled it this year. I think maybe I did six last year and I did eight this year. Um, yeah.
SPEAKER_07We need like 20.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_07I bet you could have gone through 20. Had you had them. Easy. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Also, all of our giveaway.
SPEAKER_07Had you had them and we checked the the table more.
SPEAKER_01We had about three to five hundred chapsticks gone. Uh, we had probably two to three hundred fans gone. I mean, like honestly, we could double or triple everything that we brought.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_01They are like scavengers, they want all the things.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I support it though. I think, I mean, I think it's good. Now, I will say it's expensive. There were a few people that were filling their bags with blow pops, which is a little excessive. You know, it might be a little excessive. Maybe just take one at a time, but yeah, uh, you know, hey, go crazy.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. So um, after we got our table set up, and you know, of course, like we we spoke to people and said hello, and you know, nothing is quick because everywhere you go, we we end up talking to everybody.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I always feel bad for our friends because we literally usually can't take 10 steps without getting sucked into a conversation, which which you're not mad about, but if you're our just imagine being our friends for a second, yeah, and you're we're just trying to walk to the bathroom or something. Or go get lunch, yeah. And then you're you're having to wait on us to have it.
SPEAKER_01What's funny is Tara's worked for us for years and has been a friend of ours even before she worked for us for years, and she's never really been like almost like a sidekick. I don't know, that's not a good idea.
SPEAKER_07She's seen us at Secrets before, I think, uh, but not nobody has really seen us like at the big events like Bliss Cruz and Daphne and Mike. And not Daphne and Mike see it a lot, yeah.
SPEAKER_01But um, so it was funny because she was like, I get it now. She's like, I don't know how you do it, it's so much. I'm like, it is a lot. I mean, I'm we're very grateful for it, but it is definitely a lot.
SPEAKER_07I hate even talking about that because now it's gotten to the point where people will stop us and they'll be like, Oh, I'm sorry, it'd bother you. I know there's a no, no. I I don't want to put that message across. We want to.
SPEAKER_01But I think it's important to talk about it because like we do get stopped a lot and we are very appreciative of it.
SPEAKER_07And if we do seem like we're short in that conversation, it might be because our friends have to pee or we're going to fuck or you know, going to eat, or a hundred other things. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So after we got dead setting our table up, we needed to go get STD tested. So this was kind of like a thing. We tried to go get tested here locally, and because of the 4th of July, the way the holiday fell, they were our local draw facility was open.
SPEAKER_07Like FedEx wasn't open one day, or they weren't delivering one day, and then the lab was not open one day, and then the late actual testing facility wasn't open one day.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so the lady called me and said, Hey, come in Monday, and I was like, Okay, we'll be there. I show up Monday. I guess she forgot that they were closed, which it happens. Yeah, I say stuff like that all the time.
SPEAKER_07The only down part of it is we live an hour away from there.
SPEAKER_01So 40 minutes. So we drove all the way. So anyway, it was we hadn't been tested, and so obviously testing the day of the event is not ideal. But the good thing is I know my status, like we had our results the next day. So um, about seven miles from the actual Astor, Naughty New Orleans. And we got tested like last month, so it wasn't like it was it was more of like peace of mind than like anything. So um, so we went and we were tested and we did all of that, and then we came back, and it was kind of time for the party to get started. So we went and had pizza for lunch, like our typical, you know, naughty food.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, naughty New Orleans, we are definitely an eat on the go type people. And the nice thing about um Bourbon Street is they do have these like pizza and daiquiri places all up and down, and chicken. Yeah, I felt like there's more chicken places this time than I remember in the past.
SPEAKER_01Well, I think Tara ate a lot of chicken, and we usually do pizza.
SPEAKER_07And honestly, the chicken looked better than the pizza.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it is sometimes, yeah. So uh, so we went and got our food, and then the first party that we always go to every naughty is the drinkery, and it is hosted by the accidental swingers, which is another podcast. Yeah, another podcast. They're great people, great party.
SPEAKER_07It's kind of like they host events too. I think it's swinky life or something.
SPEAKER_01Um they merge like swingers versus like kinky, like like BDSM.
SPEAKER_07They are like BDSM, they're more heavy into that than we are.
SPEAKER_01And they have found a way to like their brand is kind of merging the two, which I love because there's a lot of people in the lifestyle that are and they are a poly quad. Yes.
SPEAKER_07Uh, one of the few successful poly quads I think we've seen, at least around you know in our friend groups. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01So we started out their party. You know, I had real good intentions going into this party of being like a good girl? Not even like that. I was bad. I just, you know, y'all know I'm on a GLP one, I can't drink a whole lot. So, you know, I was like going like my I'm gonna take it easy. You know, I'm I'm not a big day drinker anyway. Like, I'm a one-to-two drink. If I go over that, I'm struggling to make it to the night party. So like I just didn't think anything of it. That is not what happened.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_01We both got trashed, and you never get trashed.
SPEAKER_07Well, the problem is, uh, well, I think one, you know, we we have been going through some shit lately. Let's just put that out there, right? In our personal lives, even in a little bit in, you know, like we've talked about this burnout podcast and stuff like that. So even a bit in a little bit of our professional lives, we've been, you know, struggling a little bit. And so I think I came into Naughty, New Orleans, we had very much cut back on our schedule of like professional things that we had to do. Um, so I was ready to kind of you know blow off some steam and I think have a good time.
SPEAKER_01And I think I I entered that even that first party with that mentality of like Well, Wednesday was the only day that we had no work too, which I didn't even think about it until later in the day. But if we were gonna like blow it up out of the water, Wednesday was the best way to do it. Also, if you know anything about Big Sexy, who is who is somebody that's been around our events, they don't come to a lot. We've known him and his wife since before the podcast started, you know, when Dan was stationed.
SPEAKER_07If you've been the Naughty New Orleans, you know who they are.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Um, we met them when Dan was stationed in South Carolina. We went to a party um and and and we met them, and they he ha has a way of bringing the party, and he has a way of like getting everybody drunk, getting everybody drunk. And so, you know, he's it honestly, as soon as we walked in, it was like started with the fireball shots. And so I took one, but I sifted it, like almost like it was my drink, you know? And but before I knew it, I have no idea how many shots I had taken.
SPEAKER_04Yes.
SPEAKER_01And you made out with half the bar.
SPEAKER_07I think so, yeah.
SPEAKER_01And like not only half the bar, but like people that we have professional relationships with.
SPEAKER_07Not at that one.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Okay, maybe. I don't know who you're talking about, but okay.
SPEAKER_01Lauren, lifestyle coach.
SPEAKER_07Oh, was that was that that that? Yeah. Remember that happening.
SPEAKER_01I don't remember what poor part of the people. People would come up and be like, Dan, how are you? And he was like, I'm so and he was just like so loving. I mean, like everybody seemed to love it. I mean, like it was well received from everybody.
SPEAKER_07I was toasted, yeah. You were toasted, but in a happy, I mean, I was very happy, yeah.
SPEAKER_01So at some point they gave, I took a shot and I knew immediately I was gonna throw up. And I was like, I gotta get out the door. So yeah, you forgot about this.
SPEAKER_05Yes, I did.
SPEAKER_01So I'm trying to get out to the bathroom. And I'm okay, listen, I said this because I was talking to somebody. I'm like, I don't throw up that much in public. I usually know that I'm gonna throw up, but like this was like holding my mouth.
SPEAKER_07I feel like like right a lot of our recent event podcasts have parts of you throwing up in them now. Okay, so it's because of the GLP one though.
SPEAKER_01It is a GLP one. Also, I am just a thrower up. If my stomach at all hurts, but it's not that you're like wasted.
SPEAKER_07Like, and that's what I don't want people to think is that like you were just toasted, uncontrollably, like messy drunk. Because you're not.
SPEAKER_01And even this, I was not toasty, messy drunk. Was I feeling good? Yeah, had I had had like four shots, yes, but I would no way, you know, like I knew where I was, I knew my like I could consent. But I was toasty.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I was a little bit you're not you can, yeah, you can walk, you're not stumbling, you're not slurring your words, you're not, yeah.
SPEAKER_01But it was a GLP one.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, you just get easy upset stomach, and I think especially like Red Bull because of the fireball you beat. Or fireball, yeah.
SPEAKER_01I mean, I get I can throw up right in a car with no alcohol. Um, so anyway, I knew I was gonna throw. So I'm trying to get outside to get to the bathroom. Because I'm usually I usually make it. Right. You know, I'm not like one to just like throw up like in the middle of something. But then one of the accidental swinger swingers started trying to talk to me, and I'm like trying to get away, and I I couldn't.
SPEAKER_07And you threw up in front of her?
SPEAKER_01In front of her.
SPEAKER_07In front of the event house, yeah. Outside at the first party, day one, first party. Not even outside, but you were like on the balcony, like the second story. Did it drip over the edge?
SPEAKER_01Babe, I don't know. It wasn't a lot, you know. It it wasn't like it was cleaned it up. She she got a worker that came and cleaned it up. It wasn't a lot because I like kept going. So like I it was just yeah, but it was a little.
SPEAKER_07Uh-oh.
SPEAKER_01It wasn't good.
SPEAKER_07That's not that's not a good look.
SPEAKER_01It's not a good look. I had to apologize. I felt like she wasn't mad about it.
SPEAKER_07I think she thought it was hilarious.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, she was like, I'm not gonna tell anybody. And I was like, Well, I'll tell everybody. I was like, We host podcasts, like that's what we do. Maybe not everybody tells their dirty secrets like us.
SPEAKER_07Well, and I think that's what's the problem. I think more people need to be blatantly on, you know, like don't pretend like you're perfect.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_07Well, not saying they don't, I mean they might but tell all their stories, but but people do give a shit because I do tell the truth.
SPEAKER_01But anyway, so but after I threw up, I feel like a million dollars because I just threw up all the alcohol that I had.
SPEAKER_06You're ready to go again. I was ready to go.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I'm definitely a puke and rally type of girl. Um, so but you know, I put some gum in my mouth. I mean, I didn't have a toothbrush or anything, but then I'm like trying to get you out of there. Like the bar, like the party is over, and I'm like, damn, we have to walk, we have to get out of here. So eventually I get you back to the hotel room and you just crash. You were out. Um, and I felt, I mean, I've I actually felt really, really good. I mean, because I threw up. So I ordered us a dinner, I ate dinner, I could not get you up. And we had to be ready at like nine, and it's like 8 45 or something like that. And I'm like, damn, we have you're still asleep, and you and I was like getting mad at you.
SPEAKER_07You were. I remember that part.
SPEAKER_01Because, like, this, it's naughty. It's our first night. Get your ass out of bed, you know?
SPEAKER_07Huh. Weird. I wonder if it's ever happened, it's been the other way around.
SPEAKER_01Very few have I can think of one time at HETA that I that I barely got up. Yeah. But that usually I will rally.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And usually you do too. And maybe that's why I was so frustrated because I was like, get the fuck up, dude. We got things to do, people to see.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Eventually you did get up. The theme for this night was I don't know how you say it, bordello.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, something like that.
SPEAKER_01B-O-R-D-E-L-L-O. Which I looked it up and I kind of took it as like a fancy prostitute.
SPEAKER_07A high-end hooker, yeah.
SPEAKER_01So I just wore fancy lingerie and put Dan like in a wore a vest. A vest and some like shorts. Uh a lot of people like were like Victorian whores. Like red.
SPEAKER_07Maybe is that like from the 50s or something? Maybe. I don't know.
SPEAKER_01So a lot of people had like red and silk, and so we kind of missed that. We had purple. I had purple on, but it didn't matter. Nobody really cared. Um and I loved my outfit, so it was good. It was a honey brudette purple lingerie set. Um Wednesday was great. Uh so the DJs were um Sereno, who is one of our favorite guys who cut who DJ's a lot of our parties.
SPEAKER_07He DJ's for EP with us, Electric Pleasures. He does splash takeovers. Uh yeah. He's done swinger study parties for us.
SPEAKER_01And DJ Sunshine, which has done some EP parties, and we met him originally last year at Naughty.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Um, I mean it was a great, it was a great party. Uh Naughty knows how to throw a party. It was a complete vibe. So we walked in, you know, ready to have a great time.
SPEAKER_07This year we almost didn't leave the EDM room. So if you don't know, Naughty New Orleans hosts two ballrooms, and they're on the second floor of the Astor Crown Plaza Hotel. Uh, and on one side they do like a top 40 room, and on the other side, it's like more of an EDM kind of and sometimes the top 40 room has live music. In the yeah, I think it's one of the nights, I think it might be Friday night. Uh, they do a live band in there. Uh, and in the past, we've kind of bounced back and forth. Sometimes, like, it feels like we're bouncing back and forth all night and like not standing one place.
SPEAKER_01And everybody's trying to find everybody.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, yeah. Uh, this year we pretty much set up shop in the EDM room. We really only came to the top 40 room to watch Justin Time DJ and to see the uh crowning of the uh king and queen.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Uh, but the EDM room was probably the most lit that I've seen in. Yeah, I can remember the first couple of years they were doing that. You'd walk into the top 40 room and they'd be playing like EDM music, and then you'd walk into the EDM room and they'd be playing like top 40.
SPEAKER_01I feel like there was like a little bit of that, you know, even like with the next time when we went with Justin, but I feel like it was better this year.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, this time I think uh like people are starting to finally understand, and I think they're getting the right DJs in the right places to do that because it definitely was it had almost electric pleasure vibes going on in that EDM room a whole few times.
SPEAKER_01Um honestly, Wednesday was kind of low-key. At some point, one of our friends came up and was like, Hey, do you want to go fuck us and this other couple? And I was like, Yeah. She's like, Well, Dan told me to come ask you. And I was like, Oh, yeah, let's go do it. And Tara was with us, and so because Tara's room was like a little bit down the road, I you walked her to her room every night so she wasn't alone. So, yeah, I was like, Hey, how do you feel about Tara this year?
SPEAKER_07Yeah, how do you feel us bringing a hot unicorn with us?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and they were like, Hell yeah. So uh so Terry ended up going with us. So it was us and two couples. Um and we we didn't we ended up not going to the playroom.
SPEAKER_07We just played Which was two couples that we had already played with them.
SPEAKER_01We had already played with them and enjoy, yeah, but yeah, but they're all both really cool couples, and it had been a while for both couples that we had played with. So I like hats off to the couple.
SPEAKER_07Well, it's funny because I can remember at the drinkery talking to our friends and and them being like, We haven't fucked you in a year, and then this other couple was like, We haven't fucked you in two years. And I'm like, Well, what the fuck?
SPEAKER_01Like, honestly, I I wanted to fuck everybody, so like I really struggled at this naughty um because there was a ton of people there that I wanted to fuck. Same.
SPEAKER_07But also the parties and the music were so fucking good. It was hard to pull away.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Um, so uh we balanced it okay, but uh honestly wish almost wish we kind of went and fucked a little bit more than we did.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it's like I genuinely enjoy the party so much. So it's like really hard to pull away, but and and to go fuck. The problem is if you wait until the party's over, then you're fucking until four or five in the morning. And then because we have such busy days, even with cutting our schedule back, we were still very busy. Yeah, it just doesn't make for listen.
SPEAKER_07I'm telling you, I've been saying this for years on this podcast, midnight, 12 30.
SPEAKER_01If you're gonna fuck, but the problem is that that's when the party's like really getting to go. Like if you don't get to the ballroom till 10 and the party like and then you go fuck at 12, that's not a whole lot of time to like dance. It makes that happen.
SPEAKER_07One o'clock at the latest. If you're not leaving at one o'clock to go fuck, it's not happening. Yeah, I'm telling you, it's just not happening. Yeah, and that rings true time and time and time again.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, no, I agree. So uh we went and fucked in their room. I did airtight.
SPEAKER_07You did?
SPEAKER_01It took a little encouraging on your behalf.
SPEAKER_07I always think I said, Lacey, you said you want to do airtight, you want to do it, and you went, yeah.
SPEAKER_01No, I think I said, I don't know.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, well, we were embarrassed, though.
SPEAKER_01I was embarrassed, and honestly, everybody stopped and watched. And I mean, that's hot, and I get why people watch because it's hot, but like part of me just wanted to like get dicked down like a dirty girl and nobody see it, you know?
SPEAKER_07Like why do you I don't understand why you care? You took four dicks basically on wifey and millions of people have seen it.
SPEAKER_01I don't know. I don't know.
SPEAKER_07It just there's like a hundred people in the room when you're doing it too.
SPEAKER_01I don't know. I don't know because it's my booty hole. I don't know. I mean, it's hard for me to explain. I don't I don't know. It just is but it was good.
SPEAKER_07Did you stop it early because you were embarrassed? No, I felt like you you kind of stopped it. I not embarrassed. You did it for a little while and then you're like, okay, I'm good.
SPEAKER_01Not embarrassed, but I think I would have enjoyed it more if everybody was like doing their something. Yeah, yeah. I kind of felt like I was like on display, which no, no shade to anybody that was in the room. Like if somebody else would have been doing airtight, I would have been doing the exact same thing they were doing. So yeah.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I was turned up during the day part. I was also turned up. I mean, I had one girl sitting on my face, another girl sitting on my dick. I was eating pussy, like you were. I and I didn't want I would have ate pussy until the sun came up. Like I was I was in it to win it. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01No, you were. And um after that, so we once we finished up. I'm pretty sure you and I went, you took Tara home to work. And then I'm pretty sure we had more anal sex and stuff. We fucked more even after that.
SPEAKER_05So we sure did, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was hot. But yeah, I mean that was that was our Wednesday.
SPEAKER_07Great little not a bad Wednesday. Not at all. All right, I think now's the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the Swing Nation podcast. And then when we'll get back, we'll get into Thursday night. Yeah. Day two. Naughty Norms. Yes. All right, I'll be right back, guys. Lacey, one thing I don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ED medication.
SPEAKER_01That is correct.
SPEAKER_07Performance anxiety is 100% a real thing. Um, having sex in an orgy room with um a hundred people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom.
SPEAKER_00It is.
SPEAKER_07Um, so I like to have what we call a little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Um, shameless care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo. Yeah. Which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it, so that one, you can be ready whenever, but also it's got that dose that you can take when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom and you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it. I mean, I used it at HEDO for the first time, and that that combination.
SPEAKER_01You're going to pretty much switch to that, haven't you?
SPEAKER_07That's basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. So if you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle uh and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it, kind of thing.
SPEAKER_01And the really cool thing about shameless care is they don't set you up on a recurring plan. So you're not going to get all of this ED medication that you have in your nightstand built up. When it's time that you need more, you'll get an email from them and they'll ask you, hey, are you ready for another round? And you can respond back. Yes, please refill it, or no, I'm good right now. Thank you. So it's really cool because you don't end up with all these extra pills and spend a bunch of money that you're not, you know, you don't need to spend.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. And my favorite part is you don't actually have to go into an office and talk to your family doctor or a military doctor. Um, you can do it all right online from the privacy of your home. Uh you just go to their website, you fill out some forms, the doctor reviews it, approves you, disapproves you, and you move on from there. So if you would like to get some medication, you can go to theswingnation.info, click on the little recommended apps and products, uh, scroll down to the shameless care icon, click on that, and that's going to take you over there. Uh, there's some discount codes there for you, so you can get a discount off your first order. But uh I highly recommend if you're going to some events or parties, go get you some lifestyle insurance. Yeah. All right, guys, check it out.
SPEAKER_01Dan, if someone is just recently joining the lifestyle and they don't really know where to begin, what do you recommend?
SPEAKER_07Well, the lifestyle, you know, it's 2025. And people are on the internet. They are and there just so happens to be lifestyle websites that are dedicated to people connecting in the lifestyle. Yes. SDC happens to be one of our favorites. Over 3 million users. You can find people in your area, you can find clubs, you can find parties. All of it is right on SDC. Um, and you can get a huge discount by signing up with us.
SPEAKER_01You can.
SPEAKER_07So all you got to do is if you're looking for lifestyle people in your area, if you're looking for the clubs, if you're looking for the parties, go to theswing nation.info, recommended apps and products, scroll down to the STC icon. We'll give you a free trial. Yeah. You can check them out. You can see who's in your area, you can see if it's uh if it's the app for you, uh, all completely risk-free. Yes. So just head on over to theswing nation.info and get signed up for SDC today. All right, guys. Welcome back. Welcome back. Thank you for listening to our sponsors. Lacey loves our sponsors. I do. Any particular sponsors on your mind today that you at Naughty New Orleans that made you think of shameless care was there, which is really cool.
SPEAKER_01They offered this thing at Naughty. So if you um started developing symptoms like a UTI, BV, anything like that, they had um physicians on standby and you could do like a telehealth visit and get your medicine while you were there.
SPEAKER_07Wow, that is cool.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, super cool. I wish every place did that.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, that's super handy. Um, because yeah, that's stuff, especially in like a five-day event, that stuff can come up uh and really ruin your time. So having having something like that right on right on uh location is super cool.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I agree. And they taught a bunch of classes at Naughty.
SPEAKER_07Yes, Shameless was very involved. Uh Tara actually said she had a really good conversation with Shameless Care. Uh they are have become uh kind of a staple of the community. It's nice to have lifestyle brands that are really vested in the lifestyle, and uh they're definitely one of them. Okay, so when we left you, we just finished having a little orgy uh in a private room with our friends, uh, which was a great time. And then that brings us to Thursday.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_07Okay, so what would you do on Thursday?
SPEAKER_01So we slept in Thursday. Shocking. And we got up, we got ready, um, and uh we went to check our table. As I was getting ready, Serenity Cox from Wifey. I'm sure y'all know who that is.
SPEAKER_07She's like the number, one of the top five porn stars on Pornhub or something. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01She texts me because they were there. Wifey didn't have a table at Naughty in New Orleans, but they were there, their casting department was there looking and meeting people and passing out and all that. And Serenity, who is there, Brandon Bassador was there. Um, and Jason Love, who is like one of like is one of Victor's.
SPEAKER_07One of the top male performers, probably in porn. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, he was there. So they had like a whole little team. Anyway, so Serenity attacks me and was like, hey, we're our DVDs are at the hustler store across the street. Well, I didn't even know that my wifey scene scene was on DVD.
SPEAKER_07If you don't know, if you're just listening to this, wifey is it's like a hot wife porn company uh that's put out by Vixen Media.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and then they they do they professional porn. Professional, but they follow real life. You do not have to be like an OnlyFans creator, you do not have to be anything like that. But they follow like they do like a documentary scene.
SPEAKER_07They're using like amateur girls, pairing them up with professional porn star males and doing like hot wife scenes.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so I did that um back in October and my scene came out on Valentine's Day. So people had mentioned over the last few months that they had DVDs of some of the scenes. I did not know if that meant like all they didn't they had never mentioned that they had seen mine. Like it was kind of like an asking, like, will they put yours out on DVD? And I'm like, I I didn't even know they made still made DVDs, to be honest with you. I had no idea, but never really thought anything of it. So when Serenity texts me and said, Hustler has your DVD, I was like, oh my god.
SPEAKER_07Right. So there's a hustler store on Bourbon Street that's almost across the road. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01From the uh Astor Crown Plaza.
SPEAKER_07And so Serenity Cox was in there. I don't know what she was doing, maybe buying a new dildo or something for a scene. Um, but she had seen uh a couple of her DVDs, but also Lacey's was there. And uh yeah, so we walked over there and you purchased your own DVD. I did. Not only are you like in the DVD, but you are like the cover photo. So it's sitting there on the shelf with all the rest of these porn videos, and there's your face surrounded by these blindfolded uh with these four guys down there.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was really cool, especially considering that I didn't know. And what was funny is like, so we didn't go back to the room. So I had this DVD with me like the whole day.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and she showed half of uh New Orleans, I think, that DVD that day, all of Bourbon Street.
SPEAKER_01Um I was like, Y'all can't tell me.
SPEAKER_07Anybody with a naughty New Orleans lanyard um got to see Lacey's DVD.
SPEAKER_01I was like, y'all can't tell me nothing. I'm on a DVD. I was very proud. Also, like get one drink in me, and that's all it takes. I'm like, and what's funny is we got to see like all the white, like, and so we I got to show them anyway. They probably thought I was ridiculous because they're probably used to like Serenity's probably been on 100 DVDs, but here I am, like so proud of my one, but whatever.
SPEAKER_07I'm sure she was proud of her first.
SPEAKER_01I'm sure she was too. So after we went to the hustler store, we did the secrets to presentation. So if you don't know, secrets, which we love, is opening up a secrets to so it's literally next door. They've just I don't want to say outgrown, but they just because they're they're not closing secrets one. They just need more rooms. If you've if you've tried to get a room at secret, they're like booked up three months in advance. So um they're in the process of selling their secrets to condominiums, which will be next door. So they did a whole presentation on it. We went to that just to show our support. We've kind of we've basically heard the whole presentation before, but it was nice to see it and and get to hear other people's feedback and be a part of it.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, they really uh they did a good job on the presentation. They laid it on, they had champagne, they talked to you. Uh, we have always been huge supporters of Secrets. We've been around since kind of the early days with them when there was just one shitty pool on one side. You know, we the first takeover we did there was just on the one side with that one little, I think what they call the conversation pool now. Uh, you know, and we barely sold out the resort. And and now it's like we put up a takeover there and it's sold out in five minutes. So we've really kind of grown up with them, so to speak. They've been excellent partners of ours and supporting everything that we do. Uh, they've kind of gave us all access behind the scenes at Secrets uh and and supported us in our podcast, and and we've really supported them. So I think we have a good like symbiotic relationship. And I I will say, uh, you know, I think secrets sometimes get us gets a bad rap. Like people like to tear them apart, just like people like to tear us apart. Uh, but now having formed a relationship with James uh and and Carmen and James Jr. and and kind of that whole team there, I truly believe like that they are in this industry for the right reasons. James cares more about the lifestyle than just about anybody that I've ever met. He's very selfless uh with with what he's built. He you know, he gives a lot of money away. He you know, he he's he's a very good person and he cares about the community. And I think those are the type of people that we should lift up and support. And having got to know him a little bit personally, I really feel confident in that more so now than ever.
SPEAKER_01No, I agree, I agree. And um, I'm really excited for Secrets too. I think it's gonna be huge. And I I I can't wait for them to break ground and if you're in a well it's amazing to see what they did with a 1950s Ramada, right?
SPEAKER_07And how they've made that into a lifestyle paradise. So imagine them building a new building from the ground up with that in intention behind it. So like purposely building a whole resort. I don't know, I don't want to speak out of tune, but I don't know if a resort has ever been built with that intention in mind. Because I think even like Hito was something else first. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I don't I don't know that a resort has ever been built from the ground up with this is going to be a place for lifestyle people.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. And I think like, too, for people that love secrets like atmosphere and party vibe, but maybe want like a nicer place to sleep. You know, like they they want a more elevated experience at the new one. I think it's gonna be awesome. But I still think that like people just love the theme rooms and are gonna enjoy still staying.
SPEAKER_07Well, we're working on getting James on the podcast to talk all about secrets too. So stay tuned. That episode is probably gonna be coming out.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_07Uh if we can ever get our schedules to line up and lock that down.
SPEAKER_01That's the problem. Yeah. Yeah. So then we went to the day parties and um we kind of bounced back and forth between two. One was Play Champagne, which we've actually never been to a Play Champagne hotel takeover, but we have partied with them at hunger.
SPEAKER_07We always go to their naughty parties, and they they're excellent. Yes, and we've DJ B Smooth has actually DJ'd, I think he DJ'd one of our uh Red Room Takeovers one time.
SPEAKER_01And just in time.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and so those two are amazing. Uh they have one other DJ, I can't remember his name, but he's great too. Uh they they know how to throw a party. They're they're they're up there. Uh if you're looking for a good hotel takeover, I know they do them kind of Ohio, Indiana, I think they've got a Kentucky one coming up. Do they? Yeah, yeah. They're kind of in that, I don't know, north, northeast, north central kind of locations. If you're in that area, look up Play Champagne, they're great.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, honestly, if we didn't have like a crazy schedule, we would try to make one, but our our schedule. That's not saying we won't at some point, but as of right now, we're just life is busy.
SPEAKER_04Life is busy.
SPEAKER_01So and then across the street, there was a swing.com one. So we kind of bounced back and forth between the two with all of our friends. I like the music at the Play Champagne one better because they had a DJ.
SPEAKER_07They had a DJ. I think swing.com just had like house music on playing over the speakers like a playlist or something. Um now I will say that bar uh is called the Concrete Rodeo. Uh and Bob had called us um prior to Naughty, and he was like, hey, we've got this, they just opened this new bar, and I think it would fit your guys' group more than the Boots Group Rodeo is. He's like, it's more you can you can get up and dance on the bar. It's got like a DJ booth, so you could, you know, you could play more of your guys' EDM type music. He's like, Do you guys want to switch to this venue? And me and Lacey were like, but it's still a cowboy bar, at least because it's called, I thought it was at least, because it was called Concrete Cowboy. I'm like, well, if it's still another country cowboy bar, and I'm like, our people have gotten so used to, I think I've are just now getting used to seeing us at the Boots Group Rodeo. I don't want to change venue, you know, because these venues kind of get their own um reputation.
SPEAKER_01Reputation. Yeah.
SPEAKER_07So everybody, nobody, not everybody realizes like which brand is behind which party, but they know the bars, right? So they're like, oh, you go to Razus, go to the beach, go to you know, Boots Group Rodeo. It's not so much like go to the Swinger Society takeover, they just know it by the bar name. Yeah. Uh so when you you know we switch, you'd almost have to like start that reputation over. And I feel like we were just starting to really get where our parties are starting to kind of pack in now for naughty, where which like the first time we had like maybe 50 people show up, you know what I mean? So uh so I was hesitant to switch. But then after seeing that bar, I was like, God, this is a really good bulk.
SPEAKER_01It is a good bar, yeah. So um we hung out there for you know the bulk of the day. Um then we um we ended up going back to our room. It's like so the parties, if you've never been to Naughty, they're like 12 to 3 and then 3 to 6. So we went to like the three to six, basically. And then that gives you like a good time to like rest, eat dinner, all the things.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and have you kind of noticed? I feel like they do a good job of the 12 to 3 parties are more like the meet and greet parties, and the three to six parties are more like the throw down. Do you think that that just happens or I don't know, maybe because you everybody's tired at noon and you kind of take you a minute to get going and warmed up, and then by the time you hit that three o'clock party, you're like ready to throw down. Yeah, maybe I don't know if they're doing it. On purpose, but it definitely seems like even the bars seem more, you know. I mean, like Bootstrap Rodeo is more of like uh you know, it's a country music and it's mixed up.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, but I think if you do that at three, it's gonna be the same.
SPEAKER_07You think it'd be wild and crazy? No, yeah, that's that's also what I'm saying, is but it's the early party. So did they do that on purpose? Oh, maybe I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
SPEAKER_01I don't know. So um after that, we went and rested a little bit. So we had a little bit of an earlier night on Thursday night because Dan was DJing.
SPEAKER_07So um So I did stay relatively sober during the day on Thursday because I knew I had you know I had a few drinks, but I knew I knew I had to be ready to DJ.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and you just did this one set. I mean, you did end up DJing later in the week at our after party, but really this was your your only like EDM set in the ballroom. And and really Bob, the owner Naughty, just called and was like, Hey, do you want to, do you want to? And Dan was like, sure, I'll I'll do one.
SPEAKER_07You know, yeah, Bob actually came into our Electric Pleasures uh Atlanta event and he saw me DJ a little bit and he was like, Hey, you're pretty good if you you know if you want to jump in at Naughty. And the thing about Naughty New Orleans is everybody wants to DJ there. It's such a big stage, right?
SPEAKER_01So it's a it's an honor to be able to ask to do it. So yeah. So because of that, we we kind of we we didn't get as much time to rest. And you ended up, you went down there like at eight something, because I think it started at nine. And um, I stayed back and finished getting ready. So this theme is through the looking glass, which is like a take on Alice in Wonderland because you can't say Alice in Wonderland because you don't want you know Disney to sue you. Um so uh so basically but basically Alice in Wonderland. So you got ready and went on.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I had my backup to my backup to my backup shirt on. Um and Lacey had your outfit this night. It was probably one of my favorites for the week.
SPEAKER_01Uh yeah, it was my favorite.
SPEAKER_07It's pretty nice.
SPEAKER_01Uh yeah, I had ordered him a shirt, but I didn't realize it was coming from like another country. So I ordered it like almost a month in advance, and it literally was delivered the day we left. So then I had to like Amazon him a shirt to the it worked out.
SPEAKER_07It worked out good. Yeah, and I went down early, you know. So if you if you're not a DJ, you're not gonna understand any of this. But if you are a DJ, you're gonna understand um the equipment they had at Naughty New Orleans. You could use um the CDJs, which are like professional, that's what music festivals DJs use, that's what professional club DJs use. It's like the top of the line professional DJ equipment. Uh, or you could use, they had other equipment there that you could use that was not that. Well, I had never played on the CDJs before, but I really, really wanted to. It's kind of like a thing to say that, you know, like, yeah, I've played on CDJs, like I've done that before. Uh, so I went down there because I was the opening set, I was you know the opening DJ, there was nobody on them yet. So I went down early so I could kind of check them out a little bit and see if I felt comfortable playing on them. Now I will say that's a risk, right? Playing a DJ set on equipment that you have never used before.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm thinking I thought it was crazy.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I said something I think to Lacey about it. She's like, don't do that.
SPEAKER_01I think this is not the this is not the place to like learn.
SPEAKER_07I even messaged Juan Deepa and I was like, hey, I'm thinking about playing on the CDJs. He's like, I don't know, buddy, if you really want to do that. But I went down there and started practicing. I'm like, this isn't that different than the stuff that we, you know, I use uh XDJAZ, which is a very similar piece of equipment. Uh so I felt confident I could do it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Well, you killed it. I got down there shortly, probably like 9.15, because Tara came up and we did some TikToks and stuff. And then we came down, and yeah, you, I mean, you can't so many people.
SPEAKER_07The uh Russell, the owner of Bliss, was like he came up while I was DJing and he like he likes to look at me, like gives me a you know, like gives me a little dap. And he's like, Why didn't you tell me you could DJ? And I was like, Oh, you never asked.
SPEAKER_01Like, he was like, Does he want to DJ at Bliss Cruise? And I was like, I'm sure he will if you ask him, because that's my husband. And then like DJ Sunshine was like, This is the best dance ever played, and he's using equipment that he has no idea what he's doing on. This is like amazing, but yeah, everybody was seeing your prices. You did very good, baby.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, it was a good, it was a good set. And I will say it felt really good to do it. And it I can remember at the last Electric Pleasures event, my sets, I was just so exhausted and tired because I had been working all day and running around like a chicken with my head cut off. So I almost felt like I was drained before I even got to do the music part, right? And so this time because we we had kind of a chill day and you know, I even got I practiced a little bit the set the night before and stuff like that. So I came into it in a pretty good head space. So the fact that it went off well uh made me feel good.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you did really well.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, thank you.
SPEAKER_01Um the dance form was packed the whole time.
SPEAKER_07Well, what not? I mean, I opened the door, so it took me a took me like 30 minutes to get them in there.
SPEAKER_01I was gonna say, I got done there at 9.15. There was a couple of couples on it, and then but by 9.45, I would say it was completely full and stayed that way until you got off.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So once you got off, uh we uh went to find drinks. The alcohol, the so like we love Naughty, and that I think they did great. But the apparently the fire marshal gave them a lot of trouble this time, like where the bars could be. So like I feel like there was a lot of there was lines for elevators, bars. I think we would be um not doing the podcast justice if we didn't mention those things. But I do know that Naughty's like crew was working behind the scenes to try to fix it and make it right. But and I definitely think that after this like first night, I think like it got better, yeah. Especially the elevators. Yeah, like Friday.
SPEAKER_07So let's talk since you brought it up, let's talk a little bit about the elevators. So the reason the problem with the elevators is swingers do what swingers always do, and they fit as many possible people in the elevators as they can because nobody wants to wait for the next one, right? Yeah, so an elevator that's supposed to have 20 people in it ends up with like 60, 70 people. Their problem is when you do that.
SPEAKER_01What elevator can fit 70? Well, I don't know.
SPEAKER_07You know, they they pack them in, is what I'm saying. They probably put twice as many people in the elevators.
SPEAKER_00Those that was wild. Those were random numbers. Those were wild numbers, but you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_07They they fill the elevator as full as they possibly can.
SPEAKER_00Like it can it be fits 10 and 10.
SPEAKER_07Well, and the problem is these are old elevators, right? This this who knows how old the Aster building is? Who knows the last time they put elevators in it? So there's these like old, ancient hydraulic elevators, and so when you put all that weight in them, it overheats the elevator, and the elevator literally they shut them down. So on uh that first, or was it Thursday night? I think two of the elevators broke down.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_07So they went from having like six to like four, and then that just made it worse, you know. So um, I think the next night they actually put staff in the elevator lobby and like controlled how many people got on and off the elevators so that they wouldn't break. Uh so it is I get there's a bunch of people complaining about the elevators, and you're right, they are. It is annoying, yeah. But we are part of the problem when we overcrowd them and correct them.
SPEAKER_01And as well, there was like issue, like people were complaining about the stairs. There was an issue with the fire. I think something the the fire marshal had changed, and so they had previously had approval to do stuff, and so it just Yeah, and that's what kills me.
SPEAKER_07People are like, oh, why don't they just do this? Why don't they do just that? Do you don't think they've thought of that? Like if it's in there's no easy fix, these guys they're playing, they're having to do everything to the code, to regulation, like in according with the fire marshals. And so if they've been told they can't use the fire exits for you know normal passage, there's nothing they can do about that, you know.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. So after you got done, DJ, and we tried to find a drink, and all the lines were long. So we ended up going to the top 40 room thinking that there's not as many people in there. We could probably get a drink faster, which we did. It ended up working. It and it was kind of smart, to be honest with you.
SPEAKER_05But don't give away that secret.
SPEAKER_01But just in time was DJing and was killing it. So we ended up never leaving the room and staying in there. Of course, we like ran into people, we ran into party mark. I mean, we talked to you know lots of different people. Um, but yeah, we ended up staying in there for quite a while. Um, and just dancing and just having like a blast. It was a good time.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. I think we kind of shut that down or came close to shutting it down, and then we went to bed, right?
SPEAKER_01No, we went, we so we Oh, that's what happened. We stayed in there for quite a while. What?
SPEAKER_07I was trying to think of what I'm like, why I know we didn't go fuck this night. What did happen?
SPEAKER_01So we had been hanging out with owner Splash, if you know Splash is coming up in August, Eroticon, aka Splash. Uh, we were had been, and he was like, We're going to AHOP. And I was like, okay. So, but you didn't hear him say that. So I'm like, hey, they're going to IHOP. Do you want to go? And you were like, hell yeah. And it's IHOP is like two doors down from the Astro Crown.
SPEAKER_07We've never been there. I don't know how we've missed that all these years.
SPEAKER_01I don't know. So us and Tara go with them or we meet them there to IHOP and have breakfast.
SPEAKER_07I do remember in that conversation, we're like, well, we basically have to choose between pancakes and sex right now.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Because we probably could go have an orgy another orgy right now. But now, what time is it? 1 30?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was pretty late.
SPEAKER_07It's after one o'clock, I think.
SPEAKER_01Because you DJ till like 11.
SPEAKER_07And when I DJ, it does that kind of takes it out of you a little bit. It's almost like coming home from work and then like jumping right into bed. You know, it's kind of hard. Like you're kind of sweaty and tired, and it kind of takes some out some out of you mentally. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And we did run into a couple of couples, like one even text you when we got back, but like after I'd had pancakes and stuff, I was not, and I was in my comfy clothes. I was not really like in the sex, you know.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, that couple that texts me, I'm sad that didn't happen.
SPEAKER_01I know. We're gonna they live in Florida.
SPEAKER_05Secrets.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, we're gonna have to make arrangements.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_01Um, but yeah, so we had IHop, and then um you walked Tara back. I walked back with the owners of supply hash so that way I wasn't alone. Went to the room, we fucked, went to bed.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and that was our Thursday night. Uh it was a good time. I really enjoyed uh DJing and and I appreciate everybody that came out to my set and uh was on the dance floor and stuff. Um it was a really good time.
SPEAKER_01It was a very good so that was Thursday. You want to start on Friday or do you uh let's see, we got 10 minutes.
SPEAKER_07So yeah, we could probably get through maybe the get through lunch or you know, get through the morning, the the day party part of it.
SPEAKER_01Okay, so Friday um we slept in. Oh, so if you don't know, Naughty is a great event for people that just want to have sex and have fun and all that. It's also a really good networking industry party. For example, like NCSF's there. If you own a lifestyle business, you can learn all about you know, consent and safer sex.
SPEAKER_07Uh a lot of the industry people are there. Then a lot of the like sponsors come in, you know. I know STD Hero was there, shameless care was there.
SPEAKER_01So it's a really good opportunity to meet and mingle with other people that own lifestyle businesses. Bob, the owner of Naughty, does an industry tour every year, and it is one of our highlights that we do every year. Um, and it was gonna be at 12 or I think you had to line up like 1155. So that's what we had the first thing. The problem was is that if you've ever been to Naughty in New Orleans, you know that the beach is like the party.
SPEAKER_05The party.
SPEAKER_01It is the top longest running party. It's hosted by Cassidy and Splash. Rockin' Ronnie is has been the MC I think since it started.
SPEAKER_04Since it started, probably.
SPEAKER_01And this year they asked Dan to MC it. And it was kind of something that we had add later. It wasn't like when we initially did our schedule, it wasn't something that we had planned for. So we thought we could be, we thought we could do both. But when we got up and started looking at the schedule, and and the party at the beach started at three, but Richard won. Sorry, the the party at the beach started at three, but the owners of Splash and and and the the representative from Cassidy and all them, they wanted us there at two. So we and we would have had to Uber. It just didn't, it didn't and we were exhausted. We were exhausted, it just didn't make sense.
SPEAKER_07So when we got up, we're like, all right, we could go to this industry thing, but we're like one hour. We'd only really be able to be there for an hour. And honestly, the way those industry things go, it's sometimes it takes 30, 40 minutes just to get it organized and before anybody starts talking or anything. So it's like we might not, we might basically miss the whole thing, and then then we're gonna have to figure out how to get back to our room to get because we had games and stuff for the beach party, and then then back to the beach. Like, so we're like, we're just gonna have to let's just skip it this year.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so we skipped it, which was a hard decision, but honestly, probably sorry, Bob. Sorry, but it was really the best decision for you and I. So we basically just like got up and got ready, checked our table, obviously, and then went to the beach and got it all, you know, you helped do sound check and they were setting everything up, and yeah, it was just get it was ready time to get ready.
SPEAKER_07It was go time, yeah. And so there was, you know, I'm not gonna lie, I had felt a little pressure going into this.
SPEAKER_01So it was the biggest party?
SPEAKER_07It is the biggest party, and you know, I don't, I don't, I don't, I MC. So, you know, if you've been around us, you've been to our parties before, you know, like at Secrets, I do a lot of the pool games and stuff like that. Um, even for Splash, you know, this is kind of how this came about, is I've been doing a lot of their pool games at a lot of the splash takeovers over the years, and so I'm a pretty decent pool game MC kind of guy. Um, but I'm not as much like what I would call like a club hype man kind of guy. You know what I mean? Like there are guys that are really good at that, like hype man at a club kind of, we know whatever MC hype guy. Um, I'm not that as much. I don't think I'm not as much great. Yeah, yeah. But I just I haven't done that a lot.
SPEAKER_01Well, it was also like a big honor for them to ask. Like even some because like we didn't like it wasn't like an announcement or anything, and some of our friends saw it on the schedule and they were like, wait, Dan is hosting the beach, and we're like, we know. So it was a it was a good honor, it was a really good honor. And I was very proud that you were asked to do that.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, so anyway, I got to do it and I I think it went off pretty well. I I had a good time, and and we played some games and I tried to do the you know, hype everybody up.
SPEAKER_01I thought you did really well.
SPEAKER_07We were shooting chickens around the whole place, it was a wild party.
SPEAKER_01Um, but except for can we talk about the fact that you broke the rule out the gate?
SPEAKER_07Yeah, so I did fuck this up, right? So if you've been to our pool parties, you've seen this game before. But what you do is you get uh, you know, three or four girls up on stage and you go, okay, this is a clothing optional, usually it's a pool party, but in this space party. This is a clothing optional party, but all these people have clothes on. I want you to go in the crowd and I want you to get as many bras and panties and bottoms and tops as you can, you know, and for everyone you get, you get a point, and whoever gets the most points is the winner, right? They're like, okay. They're like, all right, go. So these girls go into the crowd and they start, they get they're getting panties, they're getting bras, they got tops, they're getting people naked throughout the bar. They all come back, they start doing their thing. We pick a winner, and then you know, then we start throwing their clothes back out. And then immediately after that, the owner of uh Splash comes over to me. He goes, Uh, can you please make an announcement and tell everybody to put their bottoms back on? This is a topless only party. Whoops. It's like fuck.
SPEAKER_00Out the gate, fucking it up.
SPEAKER_07And at that point, half the people were butt ass naked. And good luck getting people dressed after they get naked, you know. Yeah. So I had to get back on the microphone and say, I have an announcement. Hey, if you have your bottoms off, if if you can find them, can you please put them back on? Because apparently this is a topless only party.
SPEAKER_03Whoops.
SPEAKER_07But I think that also went over really well though, because people just thought it was hilarious.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you yeah, you did get you.
SPEAKER_07And nobody was mad.
SPEAKER_01I know and I'll no, no, nobody was mad. Uh, it's kind of like you have boundaries that you're supposed to like perimeters you're supposed to stay within in some of these clubs. It every party pushes it a little.
SPEAKER_07So I don't think that you But in my head, I'm like, I have definitely seen people naked at the beach party before. Oh, yeah. Definitely, you know, definitely naked on stage. Like, yeah, yes.
SPEAKER_01So and and to be honest with you, there was naked people dancing on the stage through the whole thing. Yeah, you had the owner's wife with her top off, you were making out with people. Okay, so another funny thing is, you know, uh Party Mark and I us are good friends, and he's always said, Dan, you can use any of my games.
SPEAKER_07Just not here or whatever, like just not at secret.
SPEAKER_01Some of them, like the car wash. He didn't want us to do the car wash at secret. So, you know, there's been like some rule.
SPEAKER_05So I've done that, so which we've done it.
SPEAKER_01You know, he don't he doesn't really care. And a lot of times we'll take some of his games and like make twists, so we don't like copy them.
SPEAKER_07You know, I mean, I've straight up copied several, but yes, we have kind of changed. And but to be fair, all of them just I don't have many original pool games. Yeah. You know, we go to all these parties and we see all these people. We take our favorite ones, and yeah, sometimes we'll change them or spin them a little bit. You know, we've found some on like TikTok and stuff that we've made into swinger games, but uh so Dan's doing the game where you like click the bait. Is it like the it's like a door, I guess a door counter. So like a counter. Like when people walk through and you're trying to count them, there's like a clicker that counts up.
SPEAKER_01So Dan's doing the game where you press the clicker and it's supposed to like fake masturbating. Yeah, it's like supposed to be like a clip, you know. And whoever gets the most. So in walks party, Mark, and he's like, That's my game. You know, he's laughing and stuff. So I like Dan is completely like he's in the zone. He's hosting.
SPEAKER_07Well, I don't see Mark because I'm playing this game. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So I call Dan over. I'm like, Mark just walked in and totally busted you using his game. And so it was funny because you called Mark up there and was like, Whose game was that? And Mark's like, that's my fucking game. It was pretty funny.
SPEAKER_07So we're like halfway through and we're getting ready to do like the final round to see who the winner was. And this is when Lacey's like, Mark's here, and he's he's he he's pointing at you for playing, he's calling you out for playing his game. I was like, get his ass up here, get up here, Mark.
SPEAKER_01So Mark ended up doing the last round of it for me.
SPEAKER_07So he led the last round, yeah, which is cool.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, we took some pictures and you know, and and it was neat. It was nice to see him.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I will say, and this has been a trend I think we've been talking about for a while, but I really feel like we're in a moment right now where the lifestyle is coming together in ways that at least I haven't seen before. I think when we came into this industry, we very quickly learned that like there's some bad blood here.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, like these people don't like these people.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, it's it's almost, you know, if you get on the wrong street corner, you're gonna piss somebody off. And you know, people were calling cops on each other for parties, and and there was some like kind of shady stuff going on, and it felt it didn't feel like we didn't always feel welcome and included, and we you know, we didn't always feel like you know, sometimes we felt like we were stepping on people's toes, and when you did that, people let you know, and uh so it was a little rough, I think, getting into the industry when we came into it, you know. Um, but I will say over this last year or so, a lot of those people that had bad blood are either moved on or um or at least burying the hatchet.
SPEAKER_01And uh it's been very nice to see.
SPEAKER_07So, like this, you know, Bliss Cruise almost a lot of the industry was on the last Bliss Cruise. This time at Naughty New Orleans, Bliss Cruise was there, Secrets was there, uh, you know, all these other clubs and takeovers and stuff were there. So I really feel like we're in a time um in this community where the community is really coming in together in ways that I haven't seen, you know, in the last five, six years. Uh, and it it feels good. And it seems really authentic as well that that everybody's kind of like, no, we just want to build each other up. We just want to come together, we want to fight for you know rights for our community and and make sure that you know we're kind of all in a level playing field, and and that feels really good. I I really enjoy. And I think this is a prime example of that is Mark walking, you know, MC Mark walking in while I'm MCing one of the biggest parties and playing his game and and kind of like supporting us, you know.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, no, I agree. Um, but yeah, the beach was it was awesome, it was non-stop, wild. It was a million degrees in there, it always is. They bring in fans and every I mean huge industrial fans, but it it was a great time. I had a lot of fun.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, definitely a highlight moment. We got some good pictures, and Justin was the DJ, and so that was cool because he knows he's our boy, and yeah, he didn't he killed it, crushed it.
SPEAKER_01And it's funny because it's fun to watch the DJs that are not on like that are not working. They ended up being at most of the parties we were at, like they were all there.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, at one point in time it was like we got a picture, and I think it's like me, Justin, Sereno, uh Sunshine, and uh House House Daddy. I don't yeah, they were all up there uh with us, so it was pretty cool.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it was very cool. Yeah, and then Bob came and you know, and and you got to say something to him and thank him for all he did. And so it was honestly just like a really good fun party.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. So shout out to everybody who came out to the beach, shout out to everybody who played my games and stuff. It was sorry for the people that got naked in the beach party when I wasn't supposed to, but I'm not, I don't regret it. I don't I don't really regret it. I think it was fine.
SPEAKER_01So do you want to end there and then we'll pick up um next week on the sexual freedom parade?
SPEAKER_07Uh yeah, I think that's the perfect place to end it. So uh stay tuned. It's only Friday afternoon. Uh immediately after the beach party, we go out to the sexual freedom parade, which is another great thing. Uh, and then Friday night we got a little wild. Saturday we got really wild. Uh this was really, you know, I feel like I say this a lot, but we needed this, you know.
SPEAKER_01We really did. After our uh burn down um life podcast.
SPEAKER_07Not only the podcast, but that's that's genuinely how we felt in that moment. Um so to have an event like this and and be surrounded by our friends and and the community, and and I really felt uplifted, I think, in in this weekend with everybody, or last weekend with everybody. I think it couldn't have come at a better time. Time.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I agree.
SPEAKER_07All right. Anything else for the swing nation listeners? Now, if you want to go to Naughty and New Orleans, it is on sale.
SPEAKER_01It is. And we're already now. And we're already selling. Last year it sold out by April, and that is the Aster and the backup hotels. Right. And look, trust me, you want to stay at the Aster if you can. I mean, you it's still fun if you're one of the other hotels, but trust me, if you want to do it, if you if you're even thinking about it, go ahead and book it. We have payment plans.
SPEAKER_07So head on over to swingersociety.net. Book Naughty New Orleans for next year. Even if you're thinking about it, just go make a down payment on a room. If you change your mind later, you know, you can get a refund.
SPEAKER_01Oh, yeah, you just do it on the pass. So um the first thing you do is you book your um your naughty pass. And I it's a little less than a thousand dollars. I think it's between eight and a thousand dollars. And you can set it up on payment plans. And then about September-ish, you'll get a link for the hotel room, and it's you know, first come, first serve. And um, and then you that's when you book your room, but they don't charge your card right then.
SPEAKER_07They charge your card in the but it's when you book your passes when they lock you into what hotel you're going to, right?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yes, yes.
SPEAKER_07So if you want the aster, you've got to book now.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, go ahead and just book now because people are starting to realize that it sells out. And you know, this year I don't think they sold hardly any day passes.
SPEAKER_07So there's a lot of people that try to stick around and wait till the end and get a day pass instead of and I don't think there was a few, like if you were an industry helper person or if you were, you know, a volunteer or something. I think some of them were able to get day passes, but I don't know if they ever sold any day passes to like the public bubble.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I don't know that they did either. So if you're thinking about it, now's the time.
SPEAKER_07Yep, swingersociety.net.
SPEAKER_01Yes. And if you book with us, it helps us. It helps, yeah.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and we do we do a phone call? We do chat groups and things like that. Yeah, we have a chat group. So you can get on Discord, we have a chat room, we'll help answer your questions. Maybe Naughty is one we should do a phone call for before maybe to help answer questions since it is kind of such a big thing. Uh, but uh maybe we'll do that next year. So definitely book with us, we'd love to have you. Lots of other stuff coming up. Uh, we're going to HETO in like 10 days. Yeah. Uh then right behind that we have uh Splash Eroticon, which if you don't know, if you miss Naughty New Orleans this year and you're wanting to do a large convention style hotel takeover, uh Splash Eroticon is the next best thing. Uh and this is the first year where they've in the new hotel. It's like 600 rooms. Uh so there'll be over you know 1,500 people there. Uh indoor pool. It's an atrium style pool. So there's gonna be pool parties during the day that I will be MCing. Uh, and then they're gonna do uh ballroom parties at night. And they I have confirmed they are doing an EDM room after party uh type event at this one as well. Okay. And so uh we're gonna have quite a few of my electric pleasures DJs at this party um doing that EDM room. So uh if that's your kind of thing and you're you're looking forward to that, go to swingersight.net and book Eroticon. That's in the middle of August. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Uh so go check out like the second week of August, second weekend. Yeah.
SPEAKER_07So go check out that. Uh Secrets is sold out, but you can get put on a wait list. That's in September. Uh email admin at swingersity.net to get put on the wait list or just book a hotel nearby, coming on a day pass. Uh Secret September. And then October tickets are on sale for our electric pleasures Halloween party in October in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Uh, we're pulling out all the stops. We love Halloween, it's like the Mecca. It's like the granddaddy of swinger parties.
SPEAKER_01Yes, I'm excited.
SPEAKER_07We've never thrown uh Electric Pleasures Halloween party. Uh yeah, we've thrown, I guess, Halloween parties before at like the Red Room stuff.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, we have.
SPEAKER_07Uh, but uh so definitely if you if you want to do something for Halloween, it's not on Halloween, it's like a week or two before, right? I think it's a weekend before. Yeah, I think so. Uh so if you, you know, that way you can still go trick-or-treating with your kids, but come out and party with us before that. Um, you can find links to that on swimmersighty.net or go to electric-pleasures.com.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_07Uh, we hope to see you at an event. It is that time of year. We're getting into it. It's nonstop from now until Christmas. So it is. Uh definitely check out some of my favorite events every single time, though.
SPEAKER_01Um these are this is like our like highlight of the summer. Like, yeah.
SPEAKER_07So uh go check all that stuff out. Anything else for the swing nation listeners?
SPEAKER_01I think that's it.
SPEAKER_07All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples.
SPEAKER_01Be the pineapple.
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